“Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight.” Proverbs 3:5-6
You may find yourself in a situation that faces an uncertain future. Business has run its course, doors have closed, clients have dried up, and you dread going to work. The uncertainty of how to provide for your family is causing you to react in fear. Fear of failure, fear of embarrassment, fear of loss, and fear of starting over; they all loom large in your imagination. But it is in uncertainty that Christ is certain to come through.
Outside of faith we do not have the faculties to discern the next steps. If I lean on my own understanding, I am certain to fret and be anxious over issues out of my control. If however, I lean on the Lord and acknowledge Him, then He will lovingly lead me in His way. It may not be what I expected or predicted, but His path produces the best results. Follow Him in faith and you will experience fruit that remains at work and home.
How do you handle uncertainty? What happens when a person’s behavior becomes erratic and unpredictable? There are circumstances and people you cannot control. Only in giving them over to God can you gain peace and perspective. Hannah understood this when she gave her son to the Lord, “So now I give him to the LORD. For his whole life he will be given over to the LORD." (1 Samuel 1:28a). True trust gives over to God.
Follow the path of Providence and you will find hope and contentment. The way of Christ is your ticket of trust as you travel into the future. Don’t demand all your questions to be answered, instead walk with the Lord down the path before you. Trust in Him obeys today and is hopeful of tomorrow. How can I draw nearer to Christ during uncertain times? What lessons do I need to learn as I lean on the Lord? “Command those who are rich in this present world not to be arrogant nor to put their hope in wealth, which is so uncertain, but to put their hope in God, who richly provides us with everything for our enjoyment” (1 Timothy 6:17).
Related Readings: 2 Samuel 7:28; Psalm 112:7; Hebrews 11:8; Revelation 22:6
Source: Seeking Daily the Heart of God Boyd Bailey
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My thoughts!
GOD, Please prop me up and help me to begin the consistent journey of handing all over to you!
5.29.2009
5.22.2009
Boyd Bailey: Power Creates Pretense…
“Many curry favor with a ruler, and everyone is the friend of a man who gives gifts.” Proverbs 19:6
Do you act differently when you are in the presence of power? Are you able to be yourself and not become pretentious because of someone’s position? Leaders need people around them who will tell them what they need to hear, not what they want to hear. If you are intimidated or awestruck by wealth and stature, then you will tend not to tell the truth for fear of rejection or punishment. Bold believers bow down to no one but the Lord God.
Fake followers of Jesus are in it for what others can do for them. Faith is replaced with favors. Receiving is valued over giving. And self-service is sought out over sacrifice. Casual Christianity is an affront to Almighty God, because it creates an inauthentic culture. If there is no confrontation or hard discussions, then life is being lived in a bubble of denial and disillusionment. Someone needs to speak up and be real.
Leaders can preclude pretense by deflecting any air of superiority. Your transparency over loss and disappointment gives the team permission to express their anxieties. Take the time to confess your struggles and inability to trust Christ at times. People in positions of influence have an obligation to invite honest evaluation. When was the last time you ask your family or team how you can serve them? What disappoints them?
Lastly, are you willing to lose a friend for the sake of being real? Genuine grace-filled followers of God are like gold. They are valuable, and wise leaders seek to retain them for their honesty and no-nonsense counsel. Do I have secure people around me who will tell me the truth? Do I honor honesty and appreciate authenticity? Loyalty longs to be around a friend who only seeks favor from the Lord Jesus Christ. “A man of many companions may come to ruin, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother” (Proverbs 18:24).
Related Readings: 1 Kings 14:6; Jeremiah 3:10; Philippians 2:20; 1 Peter 1:7
Source: Seeking Daily the Heart of God Boyd Bailey
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My thoughts!
WOW! Bold believers bow down to no one but the Lord God.
Do you act differently when you are in the presence of power? Are you able to be yourself and not become pretentious because of someone’s position? Leaders need people around them who will tell them what they need to hear, not what they want to hear. If you are intimidated or awestruck by wealth and stature, then you will tend not to tell the truth for fear of rejection or punishment. Bold believers bow down to no one but the Lord God.
Fake followers of Jesus are in it for what others can do for them. Faith is replaced with favors. Receiving is valued over giving. And self-service is sought out over sacrifice. Casual Christianity is an affront to Almighty God, because it creates an inauthentic culture. If there is no confrontation or hard discussions, then life is being lived in a bubble of denial and disillusionment. Someone needs to speak up and be real.
Leaders can preclude pretense by deflecting any air of superiority. Your transparency over loss and disappointment gives the team permission to express their anxieties. Take the time to confess your struggles and inability to trust Christ at times. People in positions of influence have an obligation to invite honest evaluation. When was the last time you ask your family or team how you can serve them? What disappoints them?
Lastly, are you willing to lose a friend for the sake of being real? Genuine grace-filled followers of God are like gold. They are valuable, and wise leaders seek to retain them for their honesty and no-nonsense counsel. Do I have secure people around me who will tell me the truth? Do I honor honesty and appreciate authenticity? Loyalty longs to be around a friend who only seeks favor from the Lord Jesus Christ. “A man of many companions may come to ruin, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother” (Proverbs 18:24).
Related Readings: 1 Kings 14:6; Jeremiah 3:10; Philippians 2:20; 1 Peter 1:7
Source: Seeking Daily the Heart of God Boyd Bailey
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My thoughts!
WOW! Bold believers bow down to no one but the Lord God.
5.21.2009
Boyd Bailey: A Wife’s Blessing…
“He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the Lord.” Proverbs 18:22
Why is a wife good for a man? How does she bless him? She is good for her husband because she compliments and completes him. She is the beauty and he is the beast. She is finesse and he is forceful. She is mercy and he is the protector. She is elegant and he is earthy. She works on her hands and he works with his hands. A wife brings life and love to the longings of the one she loves. She is good for a man because this is God’s plan.
A good wife is a righteous remedy for aloneness. The LORD God said, "It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him (Genesis 2:18)”. A man needs help because by himself he lacks the discernment to make the wisest decisions. Alone he can do ok, but with the right wife he is elevated to excellence. She facilitates faithfulness to God. She prays for her husband’s full potential to be realized and enjoyed.
A man finds the right wife through prayer and patience. He waits on the Lord to lead him to a woman of character, whose life is attractive, because she loves Jesus Christ more than her future husband. She is not overly needy, as she is loved by her Heavenly Father in a wholesome and healthy way. Since she is full of grace, she is able to give grace. Like a hidden jewel, a wise man will cherish and value this quality of woman as his wife.
Similar to Jesus’ story, “The kingdom of heaven is like treasure hidden in a field. When a man found it, he hid it again, and then in his joy went and sold all he had and bought that field” (Matthew 13:44). Praise the Lord when you find the right wife. She is a gift from God to be honored and served. How can I show gratitude to my wife? Do I thank God for her daily, and pray for her to feel loved by me? “In the same way, you husbands must give honor to your wives. Treat your wife with understanding as you live together. She may be weaker than you are, but she is your equal partner in God’s gift of new life. Treat her as you should so your prayers will not be hindered” (1 Peter 3:7, NLT).
Related Readings: Genesis 24:44-67; Psalm 128:3; Luke 1:30; 1 Corinthians 7:2
Source: Seeking Daily the Heart of God Boyd Bailey
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My thoughts!
These are thoughts to treasure:
Why is a wife good for a man? How does she bless him? She is good for her husband because she compliments and completes him. She is the beauty and he is the beast. She is finesse and he is forceful. She is mercy and he is the protector. She is elegant and he is earthy. She works on her hands and he works with his hands. A wife brings life and love to the longings of the one she loves. She is good for a man because this is God’s plan.
A good wife is a righteous remedy for aloneness. The LORD God said, "It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him (Genesis 2:18)”. A man needs help because by himself he lacks the discernment to make the wisest decisions. Alone he can do ok, but with the right wife he is elevated to excellence. She facilitates faithfulness to God. She prays for her husband’s full potential to be realized and enjoyed.
A man finds the right wife through prayer and patience. He waits on the Lord to lead him to a woman of character, whose life is attractive, because she loves Jesus Christ more than her future husband. She is not overly needy, as she is loved by her Heavenly Father in a wholesome and healthy way. Since she is full of grace, she is able to give grace. Like a hidden jewel, a wise man will cherish and value this quality of woman as his wife.
Similar to Jesus’ story, “The kingdom of heaven is like treasure hidden in a field. When a man found it, he hid it again, and then in his joy went and sold all he had and bought that field” (Matthew 13:44). Praise the Lord when you find the right wife. She is a gift from God to be honored and served. How can I show gratitude to my wife? Do I thank God for her daily, and pray for her to feel loved by me? “In the same way, you husbands must give honor to your wives. Treat your wife with understanding as you live together. She may be weaker than you are, but she is your equal partner in God’s gift of new life. Treat her as you should so your prayers will not be hindered” (1 Peter 3:7, NLT).
Related Readings: Genesis 24:44-67; Psalm 128:3; Luke 1:30; 1 Corinthians 7:2
Source: Seeking Daily the Heart of God Boyd Bailey
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My thoughts!
These are thoughts to treasure:
Since she is full of grace, she is able to give grace. Like a hidden jewel, a wise man will cherish and value this quality of woman as his wife.
Do I thank God for her daily, and pray for her to feel loved by me?
5.20.2009
Boyd Bailey: Overcoming An Offense…
“An offended brother is more unyielding than a fortified city, and disputes are like the barred gates of a citadel.” Proverbs 18:19
What happens when you offend another? How do you deal with the awkwardness? You probably feel embarrassed, and regret saying or doing something that has weakened even severed the relationship. However, though hard, there is a process of penetrating hurt feelings and healing the heart. The Lord’s desire is for us to first work out relational differences on earth and then reconcile with heaven. The words of Jesus are clear.
Jesus said, “If you enter your place of worship and, about to make an offering, you suddenly remember a grudge a friend has against you, abandon your offering, leave immediately, go to this friend and make things right. Then and only then, come back and work things out with God” (Matthew 5:23b-24, TM). An offence is a huge obstacle, especially when you are ignorant of its occurrence. But ignorance is not an excuse.
When you approach an offended friend be careful not to say, “If I offended you …”. Instead, own it by confessing, “I am so sorry I offended you”. Though your offence may have been unintended, by you taking responsibility with humility and grace, it opens the door for their forgiveness. Be patient, for their guard may be up, and it takes time for a grudge to go away. Continue to slay them with severe kindness. Unconditional love lingers long.
Reconcilable differences become a hopeful example to others who face similar situations of relational severance. Pursue your insulted friend as Jesus pursued you, with unrelenting love. He said, “For the Son of Man came to seek and to save what was lost” (Luke 19:11). Persistent prayer melts away the cold bars of an offended heart. How can I humble myself and own what I did? Have I clearly confessed my sin and ask for forgiveness? Am I contributing to the healing process? “Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed.” (James 5:16a).
Related Readings: Genesis 27:41-45; Proverbs 16:32; Amos 1:11; 2 Timothy 2:22
Source: Seeking Daily the Heart of God Boyd Bailey
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My thoughts!
God you are truly amazing! Thank you!
What happens when you offend another? How do you deal with the awkwardness? You probably feel embarrassed, and regret saying or doing something that has weakened even severed the relationship. However, though hard, there is a process of penetrating hurt feelings and healing the heart. The Lord’s desire is for us to first work out relational differences on earth and then reconcile with heaven. The words of Jesus are clear.
Jesus said, “If you enter your place of worship and, about to make an offering, you suddenly remember a grudge a friend has against you, abandon your offering, leave immediately, go to this friend and make things right. Then and only then, come back and work things out with God” (Matthew 5:23b-24, TM). An offence is a huge obstacle, especially when you are ignorant of its occurrence. But ignorance is not an excuse.
When you approach an offended friend be careful not to say, “If I offended you …”. Instead, own it by confessing, “I am so sorry I offended you”. Though your offence may have been unintended, by you taking responsibility with humility and grace, it opens the door for their forgiveness. Be patient, for their guard may be up, and it takes time for a grudge to go away. Continue to slay them with severe kindness. Unconditional love lingers long.
Reconcilable differences become a hopeful example to others who face similar situations of relational severance. Pursue your insulted friend as Jesus pursued you, with unrelenting love. He said, “For the Son of Man came to seek and to save what was lost” (Luke 19:11). Persistent prayer melts away the cold bars of an offended heart. How can I humble myself and own what I did? Have I clearly confessed my sin and ask for forgiveness? Am I contributing to the healing process? “Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed.” (James 5:16a).
Related Readings: Genesis 27:41-45; Proverbs 16:32; Amos 1:11; 2 Timothy 2:22
Source: Seeking Daily the Heart of God Boyd Bailey
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My thoughts!
God you are truly amazing! Thank you!
5.19.2009
Boyd Bailey: Listen To Learn…
“The heart of the discerning acquires knowledge; the ears of the wise seek it out.” Proverbs 18:15
Daily life offers lessons to learn, but to benefit we have to be listening. It may be your financial planner who offers suggestions on how to better budget and save money, or a fellow office worker with a warning to spend more time with your family. God sends us people every day as His emissary of truth, but are we listening? Listeners are learners.
Moreover, the acquisition of wisdom is more than listening. It is being intentional to look for the right kind of knowledge in the right kind of places. If your goal is to understand the ways of God then you study Scripture, and you learn from the lives of His faithful followers. The teachings of the Bible come alive when lived out in real life. So ask people you respect what they think, and then apply their wisdom to your situation.
Active procurement of principles for wise living is the strategy of the discerning. A hot and humble heart for truth tends to listen intently, and then asks questions for clarification. The discerning are deliberate to experience what they are learning, so it becomes a part of who they are. For example, when a mentor meets with you to discuss marriage, do the same for another seeking soul, and you will learn to serve as you are being served.
Lastly, never stop listening to learn. Wisdom is a lifetime education. If fact, as you grow older you discover how much more there is to learn. Humility keeps you teachable and maturing. Perhaps you make it a goal to learn something new everyday. Pray for the people who engage you in conversation, and ask what you need to know from them. Do I see a stranger as a spokes person of the Lord? Above all, do I listen to God and learn from Him? Jesus said, “It is written in the Prophets: 'They will all be taught by God.' Everyone who listens to the Father and learns from him comes to me” (John 6:45).
Related Readings: Deuteronomy 31:12; Malachi 2:7; Philippians 4:9; 2 Timothy 3:14
Source: Seeking Daily the Heart of God Boyd Bailey
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My thoughts!
I love this: A hot and humble heart for truth tends to listen intently, and then asks questions for clarification.
Daily life offers lessons to learn, but to benefit we have to be listening. It may be your financial planner who offers suggestions on how to better budget and save money, or a fellow office worker with a warning to spend more time with your family. God sends us people every day as His emissary of truth, but are we listening? Listeners are learners.
Moreover, the acquisition of wisdom is more than listening. It is being intentional to look for the right kind of knowledge in the right kind of places. If your goal is to understand the ways of God then you study Scripture, and you learn from the lives of His faithful followers. The teachings of the Bible come alive when lived out in real life. So ask people you respect what they think, and then apply their wisdom to your situation.
Active procurement of principles for wise living is the strategy of the discerning. A hot and humble heart for truth tends to listen intently, and then asks questions for clarification. The discerning are deliberate to experience what they are learning, so it becomes a part of who they are. For example, when a mentor meets with you to discuss marriage, do the same for another seeking soul, and you will learn to serve as you are being served.
Lastly, never stop listening to learn. Wisdom is a lifetime education. If fact, as you grow older you discover how much more there is to learn. Humility keeps you teachable and maturing. Perhaps you make it a goal to learn something new everyday. Pray for the people who engage you in conversation, and ask what you need to know from them. Do I see a stranger as a spokes person of the Lord? Above all, do I listen to God and learn from Him? Jesus said, “It is written in the Prophets: 'They will all be taught by God.' Everyone who listens to the Father and learns from him comes to me” (John 6:45).
Related Readings: Deuteronomy 31:12; Malachi 2:7; Philippians 4:9; 2 Timothy 3:14
Source: Seeking Daily the Heart of God Boyd Bailey
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My thoughts!
I love this: A hot and humble heart for truth tends to listen intently, and then asks questions for clarification.
5.18.2009
Boyd Bailey: Quality Of Life…
“The thief does not come except to steal, and to kill, and to destroy. I have come that they may have life, and that they may have it more abundantly.” John 10:10 NKJV
What is quality of life for the Christian? How does Christ define quality living? He gives abundant life, but what does this look like for those who love the Lord? Abundant life begins by receiving the gift of God in the life of Jesus Christ. “And this is the testimony: God has given us eternal life, and this life is in his Son” (1 John 5:11). Quality of life begins with eternal life as the end goal. God gives us eternal life to be lived more abundantly on earth.
Quality of life means we live life motivated by what outcomes will live on into eternity. Perhaps I get less and give more. By adjusting down my standard of living, I am able to give more toward what matters to Jesus. The Lord modeled well for us a life of quality. One example was His unselfish service, “Each of you should look not only to your own interests, but also to the interests of others. Your attitude should be the same as that of Christ Jesus” (Philippians 2:4-5). Service to others brings quality of life to all parties.
Quality of life may not lead to ease and comfort, as our culture likes to advertise. Paul described his life of obedience to the Lord as a dangerous way, “I have been constantly on the move. I have been in danger from rivers, in danger from bandits, in danger from my own countrymen, in danger from Gentiles; in danger in the city, in danger in the country, in danger at sea; and in danger from false brothers” (2 Corinthians 11:26). You face danger by faith, but knowing you live for Christ sake you persevere and trust Him.
“How is my quality of life? Is it abundant in its obedience to Christ? Is He my life to the point His priorities are my priorities? Do I let go of earthly indulgences so others can gain eternal rewards?” “Since, then, you have been raised with Christ, set your hearts on things above, where Christ is seated at the right hand of God. Set your minds on things above, not on earthly things. For you died, and your life is now hidden with Christ in God” (Colossians 3:1-3). Quality of life is experienced by Christ’s life at work in and through me.
Related Readings: Amos 6:1-7; Isaiah 54:2; 2Peter 1:3; Revelation 2:7-10
Source: Seeking Daily the Heart of God Boyd Bailey
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My thoughts!
You face danger by faith, but knowing you live for Christ sake you persevere and trust Him. I love this! It makes me feel so loved.
What is quality of life for the Christian? How does Christ define quality living? He gives abundant life, but what does this look like for those who love the Lord? Abundant life begins by receiving the gift of God in the life of Jesus Christ. “And this is the testimony: God has given us eternal life, and this life is in his Son” (1 John 5:11). Quality of life begins with eternal life as the end goal. God gives us eternal life to be lived more abundantly on earth.
Quality of life means we live life motivated by what outcomes will live on into eternity. Perhaps I get less and give more. By adjusting down my standard of living, I am able to give more toward what matters to Jesus. The Lord modeled well for us a life of quality. One example was His unselfish service, “Each of you should look not only to your own interests, but also to the interests of others. Your attitude should be the same as that of Christ Jesus” (Philippians 2:4-5). Service to others brings quality of life to all parties.
Quality of life may not lead to ease and comfort, as our culture likes to advertise. Paul described his life of obedience to the Lord as a dangerous way, “I have been constantly on the move. I have been in danger from rivers, in danger from bandits, in danger from my own countrymen, in danger from Gentiles; in danger in the city, in danger in the country, in danger at sea; and in danger from false brothers” (2 Corinthians 11:26). You face danger by faith, but knowing you live for Christ sake you persevere and trust Him.
“How is my quality of life? Is it abundant in its obedience to Christ? Is He my life to the point His priorities are my priorities? Do I let go of earthly indulgences so others can gain eternal rewards?” “Since, then, you have been raised with Christ, set your hearts on things above, where Christ is seated at the right hand of God. Set your minds on things above, not on earthly things. For you died, and your life is now hidden with Christ in God” (Colossians 3:1-3). Quality of life is experienced by Christ’s life at work in and through me.
Related Readings: Amos 6:1-7; Isaiah 54:2; 2Peter 1:3; Revelation 2:7-10
Source: Seeking Daily the Heart of God Boyd Bailey
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My thoughts!
You face danger by faith, but knowing you live for Christ sake you persevere and trust Him. I love this! It makes me feel so loved.
5.15.2009
Boyd Bailey: Unfriendly Faith…
“An unfriendly man pursues selfish ends; he defies all sound judgment.” Proverbs 18:1
Why are some people unfriendly? Are they just shy, or is there selfish intent? If I am fearful of being embarrassed because of my words, the focus is all on myself and not on Christ and others. There is a need for me to get over me, and get on with God. It is not about self, but about selfless love of people. If Christ is the center of my thinking, then I totally trust Him in growing my social skills. Silence can send the wrong message.
If someone silently judges another, without seeking to understand and clarify their position, there follows conceit and arrogance. Conversely, friendliness can facilitate a safe environment so that relationships can emerge and grow in grace. However, an attitude of contempt tends to make matters worse by not extending grace and understanding. “When wickedness comes, so does contempt, and with shame comes disgrace” (Proverbs 18:3)
An unfriendly face can release selfish signals. It repels warmth and rejects intimacy. What does the expression on your face communicate, acceptance or rejection? Do you invite others into your emotional space with a pleasant expression, or do you dismiss them with a face without feeling. How we look is a translation of our heart. Therefore, be friendly and attractive, so that your faith in Christ can be expressed with grace and love.
A friendly countenance says you are open to hearing a person’s hurts and fears. You are not easily frustrated, because your focus is on serving and not being served. Friendly faith is forever reaching out, and sincerely seeking to understand another’s perspective. “Does my attitude portray being a friend of Jesus, or a friend of the world?” Friendly faith facilitates faith. Thus, “Be ready to speak up and tell anyone who asks why you're living the way you are, and always with the utmost courtesy” (1 Peter 3:15, TM).
Related Readings: Proverbs 16:21; 24; John 15:14-15; Philippians 2:3; James 4:4
Source: Seeking Daily the Heart of God Boyd Bailey
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My thoughts!
God! Please help me to not have an unfriendly face! :)
Why are some people unfriendly? Are they just shy, or is there selfish intent? If I am fearful of being embarrassed because of my words, the focus is all on myself and not on Christ and others. There is a need for me to get over me, and get on with God. It is not about self, but about selfless love of people. If Christ is the center of my thinking, then I totally trust Him in growing my social skills. Silence can send the wrong message.
If someone silently judges another, without seeking to understand and clarify their position, there follows conceit and arrogance. Conversely, friendliness can facilitate a safe environment so that relationships can emerge and grow in grace. However, an attitude of contempt tends to make matters worse by not extending grace and understanding. “When wickedness comes, so does contempt, and with shame comes disgrace” (Proverbs 18:3)
An unfriendly face can release selfish signals. It repels warmth and rejects intimacy. What does the expression on your face communicate, acceptance or rejection? Do you invite others into your emotional space with a pleasant expression, or do you dismiss them with a face without feeling. How we look is a translation of our heart. Therefore, be friendly and attractive, so that your faith in Christ can be expressed with grace and love.
A friendly countenance says you are open to hearing a person’s hurts and fears. You are not easily frustrated, because your focus is on serving and not being served. Friendly faith is forever reaching out, and sincerely seeking to understand another’s perspective. “Does my attitude portray being a friend of Jesus, or a friend of the world?” Friendly faith facilitates faith. Thus, “Be ready to speak up and tell anyone who asks why you're living the way you are, and always with the utmost courtesy” (1 Peter 3:15, TM).
Related Readings: Proverbs 16:21; 24; John 15:14-15; Philippians 2:3; James 4:4
Source: Seeking Daily the Heart of God Boyd Bailey
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My thoughts!
God! Please help me to not have an unfriendly face! :)
5.13.2009
Boyd Bailey: Focused Follow Through…
“A discerning man keeps wisdom in view, but a fool’s eyes wander to the ends of the earth.” Proverbs 17:24
Wise leaders focus on follow through, and do not wander around detached from the details. Details are stepping-stones to success or, if ignored, stumbling blocks to failure. Discernment keeps you systematically focused on a sequence of tasks that assure the implementation of every point in a project. You are wise when you promise less and deliver more. Indeed, focused leaders who follow through can be trusted with more.
If the leader is distracted by the next new idea he will not have the energy or mental capacity to follow through with the most strategic pending project. It is a naïve leader who thinks he or she can delegate their way away from staying engaged in the execution of mission critical initiatives. Every week, or even daily, your team needs to hear from you discerning questions that increase their accountability. Follow through engages.
How is the progress related to the agreed upon timeline for completion? What obstacles are in the way, and how can they be removed? Is the cost of the project within budget? What did we decide and who is responsible for its implementation? Wise leaders know enough of the details to know what questions to ask. You keep wisdom in view by focusing on a few mission critical strategies. You bring clarity to the course of action.
Teams clamor to follow a wise leader who is focused on follow through. So model the way by doing what you say. Your servant leadership facilitates follow through for the team. Become their barrier breaker, and give them the confidence to carry on. Follow through creates creditability. Above all, focus on the Lord and follow through with what He tells you to do. Faith follows through. “Am I a leader worth following, because I follow through?” “Can I be trusted with more, because I have been faithful with what I have?” Perhaps you say “no” more, and “yes” less. Jesus said, “Simply let your 'Yes' be 'Yes,' and your 'No,' 'No'; anything beyond this comes from the evil one.” (Matthew 5:37).
Related Readings: Psalm 119:37; Proverbs 15:14; John 7:17; 1 John 2:16
Source: Seeking Daily the Heart of God Boyd Bailey
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My thoughts!
This is amazingly sound advice! Something I've been working in my professional and personal life! It's difficult, but well worth the effort!
Wise leaders focus on follow through, and do not wander around detached from the details. Details are stepping-stones to success or, if ignored, stumbling blocks to failure. Discernment keeps you systematically focused on a sequence of tasks that assure the implementation of every point in a project. You are wise when you promise less and deliver more. Indeed, focused leaders who follow through can be trusted with more.
If the leader is distracted by the next new idea he will not have the energy or mental capacity to follow through with the most strategic pending project. It is a naïve leader who thinks he or she can delegate their way away from staying engaged in the execution of mission critical initiatives. Every week, or even daily, your team needs to hear from you discerning questions that increase their accountability. Follow through engages.
How is the progress related to the agreed upon timeline for completion? What obstacles are in the way, and how can they be removed? Is the cost of the project within budget? What did we decide and who is responsible for its implementation? Wise leaders know enough of the details to know what questions to ask. You keep wisdom in view by focusing on a few mission critical strategies. You bring clarity to the course of action.
Teams clamor to follow a wise leader who is focused on follow through. So model the way by doing what you say. Your servant leadership facilitates follow through for the team. Become their barrier breaker, and give them the confidence to carry on. Follow through creates creditability. Above all, focus on the Lord and follow through with what He tells you to do. Faith follows through. “Am I a leader worth following, because I follow through?” “Can I be trusted with more, because I have been faithful with what I have?” Perhaps you say “no” more, and “yes” less. Jesus said, “Simply let your 'Yes' be 'Yes,' and your 'No,' 'No'; anything beyond this comes from the evil one.” (Matthew 5:37).
Related Readings: Psalm 119:37; Proverbs 15:14; John 7:17; 1 John 2:16
Source: Seeking Daily the Heart of God Boyd Bailey
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My thoughts!
This is amazingly sound advice! Something I've been working in my professional and personal life! It's difficult, but well worth the effort!
5.08.2009
Boyd Bailey: A Mother’s Work…
“She watches over the affairs of her household and does not eat the bread of idleness. Her children arise and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her:” Proverbs 31:27-28
A mother’s work is never done. There is always another meal to prepare, a face to wipe, clothes to wash, an errand to run, a room to clean and a dollar to manage. She serves unselfishly like Jesus, “After that, he poured water into a basin and began to wash his disciples' feet, drying them with the towel that was wrapped around him” (John 13:5). A mother’s work makes those around her look good. She is God’s chosen one in the home.
The law of love and kindness is written on her heart, but some days it’s hard to have the right attitude. The work can become laborious, monotonous and taken for granted. It is at this point of feeling unappreciated that a wise mom reminds herself of heaven’s applause. She is really serving for an audience of one, her loving Lord. Her Savior Jesus smiles at her service and that’s enough. The reward of doing right encourages her heart to do right.
In addition there are the rewards of a child’s smile and warm embrace, “Thank you mommy for being my mommy”. Or a loving husband who genuinely thanks her and serves his wife by listening, serving and giving praise. She takes pride in her work, because she recognizes everything she has is a gift from God. Her home and family are a reflection of her and her Heavenly Father. She manages the home for her Master’s glory.
Lastly, her work is a model for her children to follow. Her actions become a teacher that prepares them for adulthood. Chores done well, create children who work well. Assign them responsibilities so they learn thoroughness, cleanliness and organization. Indeed, her work creates calm in the home, like the Lord quiets her soul, “But I have stilled and quieted my soul; like a weaned child with its mother, like a weaned child is my soul within me” (Psalm 131:2). “Am I content serving my family for Christ’s sake?”
Related Readings: Proverbs 4:3; Proverbs 31:10-31; 1 Timothy 5:14; Titus 2:4
Source: Seeking Daily the Heart of God Boyd Bailey
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My thoughts!
Thank you God for MELISSA (my amazing wife and friend)!
A mother’s work is never done. There is always another meal to prepare, a face to wipe, clothes to wash, an errand to run, a room to clean and a dollar to manage. She serves unselfishly like Jesus, “After that, he poured water into a basin and began to wash his disciples' feet, drying them with the towel that was wrapped around him” (John 13:5). A mother’s work makes those around her look good. She is God’s chosen one in the home.
The law of love and kindness is written on her heart, but some days it’s hard to have the right attitude. The work can become laborious, monotonous and taken for granted. It is at this point of feeling unappreciated that a wise mom reminds herself of heaven’s applause. She is really serving for an audience of one, her loving Lord. Her Savior Jesus smiles at her service and that’s enough. The reward of doing right encourages her heart to do right.
In addition there are the rewards of a child’s smile and warm embrace, “Thank you mommy for being my mommy”. Or a loving husband who genuinely thanks her and serves his wife by listening, serving and giving praise. She takes pride in her work, because she recognizes everything she has is a gift from God. Her home and family are a reflection of her and her Heavenly Father. She manages the home for her Master’s glory.
Lastly, her work is a model for her children to follow. Her actions become a teacher that prepares them for adulthood. Chores done well, create children who work well. Assign them responsibilities so they learn thoroughness, cleanliness and organization. Indeed, her work creates calm in the home, like the Lord quiets her soul, “But I have stilled and quieted my soul; like a weaned child with its mother, like a weaned child is my soul within me” (Psalm 131:2). “Am I content serving my family for Christ’s sake?”
Related Readings: Proverbs 4:3; Proverbs 31:10-31; 1 Timothy 5:14; Titus 2:4
Source: Seeking Daily the Heart of God Boyd Bailey
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My thoughts!
Thank you God for MELISSA (my amazing wife and friend)!
5.05.2009
Boyd Bailey: A Mother’s Love…
“As apostles of Christ we could have been a burden to you, but we were gentle among you, like a mother caring for her little children.” 1 Thessalonians 2:7
A mother’s love reflects the love of the Lord, deep in its capacity and generous in its application. She awakes in the middle of the night to nurse a hungry infant, or care for a sick child. Her intuition injects love at points of pain, and in situations that require extensive encouragement. A mother’s love lingers long in conversation and understands with her sensitive heart. She loves, because Christ’s love compels her to love like Him.
Moreover, a mother’s love is loyal and longstanding. A child may be in trouble, but mom is always close by, full of compassion and acceptance. Her love can be blind in its loyalty, but her offspring never doubt where they are welcomed. Jesus was rejected by angry, jealous men and abandoned by His closest friends, but His mother was waiting with Him to the bitter end, “Near the cross of Jesus stood his mother… (John 19:25a).
A mother’s love even has the capacity to be a mother to those who are not biologically her own. Amazingly she can informally ‘adopt’ people for a season and love on them emotionally, physically, spiritually and relationally. She opens her home, shares her food, gives her time, dispenses her wisdom, and encourages obedience to follow Christ. Paul experienced this, “Greet Rufus, chosen in the Lord, and his mother, who has been a mother to me, too” (Romans 16:13). Moms sometime mother greatness which is not necessarily their own.
Lastly, a mother’s love is gentle like God is gentle toward His children. He calls us to love and to the lead like Jesus. Love serves people and does not rule with rigor. “God's servant must not be argumentative, but a gentle listener and a teacher who keeps cool, working firmly but patiently with those who refuse to obey” (2 Timothy 2:24, TM). “Do I model gentle and patient love?” “Do others feel safe to share their sorrows with me?”
Related Readings: Genesis 47:12; Ruth 4:16; John 21:15-17; James 3:17
A mother’s love reflects the love of the Lord, deep in its capacity and generous in its application. She awakes in the middle of the night to nurse a hungry infant, or care for a sick child. Her intuition injects love at points of pain, and in situations that require extensive encouragement. A mother’s love lingers long in conversation and understands with her sensitive heart. She loves, because Christ’s love compels her to love like Him.
Moreover, a mother’s love is loyal and longstanding. A child may be in trouble, but mom is always close by, full of compassion and acceptance. Her love can be blind in its loyalty, but her offspring never doubt where they are welcomed. Jesus was rejected by angry, jealous men and abandoned by His closest friends, but His mother was waiting with Him to the bitter end, “Near the cross of Jesus stood his mother… (John 19:25a).
A mother’s love even has the capacity to be a mother to those who are not biologically her own. Amazingly she can informally ‘adopt’ people for a season and love on them emotionally, physically, spiritually and relationally. She opens her home, shares her food, gives her time, dispenses her wisdom, and encourages obedience to follow Christ. Paul experienced this, “Greet Rufus, chosen in the Lord, and his mother, who has been a mother to me, too” (Romans 16:13). Moms sometime mother greatness which is not necessarily their own.
Lastly, a mother’s love is gentle like God is gentle toward His children. He calls us to love and to the lead like Jesus. Love serves people and does not rule with rigor. “God's servant must not be argumentative, but a gentle listener and a teacher who keeps cool, working firmly but patiently with those who refuse to obey” (2 Timothy 2:24, TM). “Do I model gentle and patient love?” “Do others feel safe to share their sorrows with me?”
Related Readings: Genesis 47:12; Ruth 4:16; John 21:15-17; James 3:17
5.04.2009
Boyd Bailey: A Mother’s Prayer…
“I prayed for this child, and the LORD has granted me what I asked of him. So now I give him to the LORD. For his whole life he will be given over to the LORD." And he worshiped the LORD there.” 1 Samuel 1:27-28
A mother who prays causes Satan to shutter and his demons to take notice. It is her steady stream of supplications to her Savior Jesus that garners the attention of God. Dad may not be around, but her Heavenly Father is there for wisdom and encouragement. She knows the Lord understands, so she seeks Him for grace and comfort. The prayer of a mom punctures the portals of heaven with passionate petitions that provide her peace.
A mother’s prayers mark her family with faith and trust in God. Her overflow of mercy and grace is a reminder that Jesus is the ‘author and finisher’ of the family’s faith. The fruit from her prayers personify Christ’s character, and hell clamors at the calm requests from a mom who trusts God. They pray for their children to obey and worship the Lord, and for their husbands to fear God, hate sin and love people. A mom’s prayer matters.
Lastly, consider a prayer journal to capture Christ’s faithfulness to your faith appeals. Pray for your children by name and lift up each of their unique needs to the Lord. Pray for your husband’s submission to be accountable to Almighty God. Indeed, a wise mother’s first concern is to pray in Jesus name. They ask, ‘Do I constantly worry, or do I apply that same energy in passionate prayer?’ “Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God” (Philippians 4:6).
Related Readings: Psalm 66:16-19; Isaiah 28:9; Luke 22:2-3; Acts 1:14
Source: Seeking Daily the Heart of God Boyd Bailey
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My thoughts!
Thank you God for such a prayerful wife!
A mother who prays causes Satan to shutter and his demons to take notice. It is her steady stream of supplications to her Savior Jesus that garners the attention of God. Dad may not be around, but her Heavenly Father is there for wisdom and encouragement. She knows the Lord understands, so she seeks Him for grace and comfort. The prayer of a mom punctures the portals of heaven with passionate petitions that provide her peace.
A mother’s prayers mark her family with faith and trust in God. Her overflow of mercy and grace is a reminder that Jesus is the ‘author and finisher’ of the family’s faith. The fruit from her prayers personify Christ’s character, and hell clamors at the calm requests from a mom who trusts God. They pray for their children to obey and worship the Lord, and for their husbands to fear God, hate sin and love people. A mom’s prayer matters.
Lastly, consider a prayer journal to capture Christ’s faithfulness to your faith appeals. Pray for your children by name and lift up each of their unique needs to the Lord. Pray for your husband’s submission to be accountable to Almighty God. Indeed, a wise mother’s first concern is to pray in Jesus name. They ask, ‘Do I constantly worry, or do I apply that same energy in passionate prayer?’ “Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God” (Philippians 4:6).
Related Readings: Psalm 66:16-19; Isaiah 28:9; Luke 22:2-3; Acts 1:14
Source: Seeking Daily the Heart of God Boyd Bailey
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My thoughts!
Thank you God for such a prayerful wife!
Boyd Bailey: Foolish Children…
“To have a fool for a son brings grief; there is no joy for the father of a fool.” Proverbs 17:21
Foolish children flail around trying to find themselves. Typically they are terrible at managing money, because they have no concept of conservative spending and consistent saving. Then they look to mom and dad to bail them out. They desire a stimulus package from their parents, without structure or accountability. Childish children become masters of manipulation by subtly saying, “if you really loved me”, as guilt to get their way.
This grieves the hearts of their parents. Their father and mother want to do the right thing, but become conflicted on defining “what’s right”. The dad may be firm and the mom more merciful, so it’s imperative they are unified in their approach in how they love their rebellious child. They cannot allow Satan to drive a wedge of doubt between them; Jesus said, “… a household divided against itself will not stand” (Matthew 12:25).
Start with sincere and aggressive prayer for a loved one bound up in foolish behavior. Pray for the Lord to change you, and give you the grace and courage to offer an aggressive love based on the love of your Heavenly Father. You can love the unlovely as you ought, only after receiving His unconditional love. Remember the joy you had when they came into this world as God’s gift. So trust their Creator to bring them back to Christ. He can.
Lastly, confide in the Christian community about your sorrow and hurt. It may be a surprise how many have suffered a similar fate. Move beyond the mistakes of the past and focus on faith in the present. Turn your child over to the Lord’s love and discipline. Pray that your foolish child will fatigue from folly, and return to faith in God. Thus you pray, “Christ give me confidence to let them go and give them to you, and I hope one day for a celebration”, “For this son of mine was dead and is alive again; he was lost and is found. So they began to celebrate” (Luke 15:24).
Related Readings: 2 Samuel 18:33; Proverbs 19:13-26; 2 Corinthians 2:3; 3 John 1:4
Source: Seeking Daily the Heart of God Boyd Bailey
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My thoughts!
I've never seen two opposite words work so well in describing a difficult situation. Sincere and Aggressive! Start with sincere and aggressive prayer for a loved one bound up in foolish behavior.
Foolish children flail around trying to find themselves. Typically they are terrible at managing money, because they have no concept of conservative spending and consistent saving. Then they look to mom and dad to bail them out. They desire a stimulus package from their parents, without structure or accountability. Childish children become masters of manipulation by subtly saying, “if you really loved me”, as guilt to get their way.
This grieves the hearts of their parents. Their father and mother want to do the right thing, but become conflicted on defining “what’s right”. The dad may be firm and the mom more merciful, so it’s imperative they are unified in their approach in how they love their rebellious child. They cannot allow Satan to drive a wedge of doubt between them; Jesus said, “… a household divided against itself will not stand” (Matthew 12:25).
Start with sincere and aggressive prayer for a loved one bound up in foolish behavior. Pray for the Lord to change you, and give you the grace and courage to offer an aggressive love based on the love of your Heavenly Father. You can love the unlovely as you ought, only after receiving His unconditional love. Remember the joy you had when they came into this world as God’s gift. So trust their Creator to bring them back to Christ. He can.
Lastly, confide in the Christian community about your sorrow and hurt. It may be a surprise how many have suffered a similar fate. Move beyond the mistakes of the past and focus on faith in the present. Turn your child over to the Lord’s love and discipline. Pray that your foolish child will fatigue from folly, and return to faith in God. Thus you pray, “Christ give me confidence to let them go and give them to you, and I hope one day for a celebration”, “For this son of mine was dead and is alive again; he was lost and is found. So they began to celebrate” (Luke 15:24).
Related Readings: 2 Samuel 18:33; Proverbs 19:13-26; 2 Corinthians 2:3; 3 John 1:4
Source: Seeking Daily the Heart of God Boyd Bailey
++++++++++++++++
My thoughts!
I've never seen two opposite words work so well in describing a difficult situation. Sincere and Aggressive! Start with sincere and aggressive prayer for a loved one bound up in foolish behavior.
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