“Lord, the one you love is sick.” “When he heard this, Jesus said, “This sickness will not end in death. No it is for God’s glory, so that God’s son may be glorified through it.” John 11:3b-4
Are you the recent recipient of bad news? Is it cancer, job termination, financial free fall, divorce, betrayal or an accident? Bad news can cause you to blame others, and remain mad at God. It solicits sadness and assumes the worse. Bad news can break your heart, flood your face with tears, and fill your heart with sorrow. It is a test of our trust and a revelation of whom we really believe is in control. Bad news can bring out our best.
Moreover, bad news is an invitation for God’s good news. The Gospel of Jesus Christ is our certainty when we are uncertain, our hope when we are hopeless, and our salvation when we are sinful. It is our stability when we are out of control, and our healing when we are hurting. The good news of God’s sovereignty supersedes the bad news of our sorrow and sickness. The Lord’s dominion determines our destiny.
Furthermore, the affliction of your family is for the glory of God. The diseased body of a believer is meant to point people toward their glorified body in glory. “But our citizenship is in heaven. And we eagerly await a Savior from there, the Lord Jesus Christ, who, by the power that enables him to bring everything under his control, will transform our lowly bodies so that they will be like his glorious body” (Philippians 3:20-21).
Lastly, the affection of Almighty God is an outcome of your adversity. His trustworthiness transcends your troubles. The love of the Lord longs for you in your lamentation. Circumstances that are brimming with bad news means you are a prime candidate for God’s glorification. Be a secure son or daughter of your Heavenly Father, so they can see God’s Son in your life and glorify Him. Are you using bad news to bring glory to God? “He who speaks from himself seeks his own glory; but He who is seeking the glory of the One who sent Him, He is true, and there is no unrighteousness in Him” (John 7:18, NASB).
Related Readings: Genesis 22:2; Mark 5:39-42; Philippians 2:26-27; 1 Peter 1:21
Transformational Living
How can I best reflect Christ in my life when I receive bad news?
Source: Seeking Daily the Heart of God Boyd Bailey
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My thoughts!
When I read this it reminded me of one of my favorite inspirational quotes: Calm seas do not make good sailors. It's taken me awhile to realize this, but I believe that adversity, good or bad, makes us all grow closer to Jesus and ultimately to GOD. Realizeing that I'm not in control and that I need a strong foundation "GOD" to make it through life!
2.27.2009
2.26.2009
inwardoutward.org: The Best Prayer
The best prayer is to rest in the goodness of God, knowing that that goodness can reach down to our lowest depths of need.
Sources: Revelations of Divine Love by Julian of Norwich & inwardoutward.org
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My thoughts!
"Rest in the goodness of God" I've also heard it called resting in the grace of GOD. I so need to understand this topic better. It sounds like a really, really good night of sleep!
Sources: Revelations of Divine Love by Julian of Norwich & inwardoutward.org
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My thoughts!
"Rest in the goodness of God" I've also heard it called resting in the grace of GOD. I so need to understand this topic better. It sounds like a really, really good night of sleep!
Boyd Bailey: A new resource for me!
I came across a really nice website the other day. inward/outward A project of the Church of the Saviour of Washington, DC. They send out a few short emails a week. They have some nice diversity to the topics and thoughts. So, I'll be adding this site as another source of Christ centered inspiration here at Mighty Messiah.
PS: This is nice reminder of my little brother and his wife who work in Washington, DC and live in Virginia. I really miss them!
PS: This is nice reminder of my little brother and his wife who work in Washington, DC and live in Virginia. I really miss them!
Boyd Bailey: Noble Wife…
“A wife of noble character is her husband’s crown, but a disgraceful wife is a decay to his bones.” Proverbs 12:4
Why are certain wives attractive, and others unattractive? Why do you enjoy the company of some, but avoid the company of others? A wife of noble character is attractive, because she aspires to obey Almighty God. She is a joy to be around, as she enjoys being in the presence of the Lord. Her first allegiance is to her Savior, Jesus Christ, exhibited by her regal appearance and respectful responses God has first place in her heart.
Her husband takes pride in his wife, because she can be trusted in all household matters and financial management. She follows her husband’s leadership by faith. She entrusts him under the authority of God to hold him accountable. A wife of noble character knows how to prayerful ask challenging questions of her man, without usurping his leadership. She is strong and gracious, bold and beautiful, firm and friendly, and faithful and loving.
Her children are loved when they are unlovely, and disciplined when they behave badly. They know their mom cares, even when she gets carried away in her correction. A wife of noble character is a model of motherhood for her daughters, and an example of whom her sons should marry. She is wise to honor her husband in front of the children, especially when they disagree. Her character is a compass for the actions of her kids.
Lastly, a wife of noble character is not afraid to mentor and encourage other wives. Not with a superior spirit, but with an attitude of meekness and brokenness. She quickly admits to her past mistakes, so to save some young women from repeating the hurt and heartache. A student she remains, even while she endeavors to teach and train. Wisdom is worn around her words with humility and grace. Indeed, “Am I grateful, glad and proud of my wife?” The Bible says, “She is worth far more than rubies” (Proverbs 31:10b).
Related Readings: Genesis 2:18-24; Ruth 3:11; 1 Corinthians 11:7-11; 1 Timothy 5:2
Transformational Living
How can I enjoy God’s blessing of my husband and children?
Source: Seeking Daily the Heart of God Boyd Bailey
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My thoughts!
Tough topic, but it's been coming up a lot lately. I believe the most important point of all this is that my wife is a strong believer and follower of Christ. To me that's all that matters. The rest will fall in-line.
Why are certain wives attractive, and others unattractive? Why do you enjoy the company of some, but avoid the company of others? A wife of noble character is attractive, because she aspires to obey Almighty God. She is a joy to be around, as she enjoys being in the presence of the Lord. Her first allegiance is to her Savior, Jesus Christ, exhibited by her regal appearance and respectful responses God has first place in her heart.
Her husband takes pride in his wife, because she can be trusted in all household matters and financial management. She follows her husband’s leadership by faith. She entrusts him under the authority of God to hold him accountable. A wife of noble character knows how to prayerful ask challenging questions of her man, without usurping his leadership. She is strong and gracious, bold and beautiful, firm and friendly, and faithful and loving.
Her children are loved when they are unlovely, and disciplined when they behave badly. They know their mom cares, even when she gets carried away in her correction. A wife of noble character is a model of motherhood for her daughters, and an example of whom her sons should marry. She is wise to honor her husband in front of the children, especially when they disagree. Her character is a compass for the actions of her kids.
Lastly, a wife of noble character is not afraid to mentor and encourage other wives. Not with a superior spirit, but with an attitude of meekness and brokenness. She quickly admits to her past mistakes, so to save some young women from repeating the hurt and heartache. A student she remains, even while she endeavors to teach and train. Wisdom is worn around her words with humility and grace. Indeed, “Am I grateful, glad and proud of my wife?” The Bible says, “She is worth far more than rubies” (Proverbs 31:10b).
Related Readings: Genesis 2:18-24; Ruth 3:11; 1 Corinthians 11:7-11; 1 Timothy 5:2
Transformational Living
How can I enjoy God’s blessing of my husband and children?
Source: Seeking Daily the Heart of God Boyd Bailey
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My thoughts!
Tough topic, but it's been coming up a lot lately. I believe the most important point of all this is that my wife is a strong believer and follower of Christ. To me that's all that matters. The rest will fall in-line.
2.24.2009
Boyd Bailey: Refreshers Are Refreshed…
“A generous man will prosper; he who refreshes others will himself be refreshed.” Proverbs 11:25
What does it mean to be refreshed? It is to be made fresh, to revive, enliven, invigorate, rejuvenate, energize, restore, recharge or revitalize. A meager cup of lukewarm coffee comes alive with taste and satisfaction, when mixed with freshly brewed beans. A lukewarm life is warmed and encouraged, when refreshed with words of encouragement and acts of kindness. Everyone we meet become candidates for refreshment.
Our faith cools down when Christ seems silent and circumstances continue to crumble, but a sincere prayer from a righteous friend restores and warms our confidence. Our hope feels deferred in the face of disappointment and rejection, but we are energized by the acceptance and love of a community of believers in Jesus. Hope loves company. Seek refreshment from your Savior and His followers. Be refreshed, so you can refresh others.
When your parched soul has been watered by dew from heaven, you can lead others to the Lord’s watering hole. People are frantic from feeling robbed by insensitive institutions and greedy governments, but we can reconnect them to their generous God. Jesus gives us an abundant life to be shared with others absent of abundance. “I have come that they may have life, and that they may have it more abundantly” (John 10:10b).
Lastly, your refreshment reciprocates refreshment. When you refresh another financially, you are refreshed by faith and fulfillment. When you refresh another emotionally, you are refreshed by peace and contentment. When you refresh another spiritually, you are refreshed by the grace and love of God. Are you in need of refreshment? If so, receive Christ’s full cup of joy. Drink often with the Lord, so you can generously refresh friends. The Bible says, “Taste and see that the LORD is good; blessed is the man who takes refuge in him” (Psalm 34:8).
Related Readings: Ruth 2:14; Psalm 41:1; Matthew 25:34-35; 2 Corinthians 9:6-7
Transformational Living
How can I stay in a routine of refreshment, so I in turn can refresh others?
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My thoughts!
You have my attention, anytime you talk about coffee. And it's true, I often feel like lukewarm coffee and I so enjoy the warmer up of the new fresh hot coffee. I've had a few experiences lately that have been a true warming up of my spiritual cup. Thank you GOD!
What does it mean to be refreshed? It is to be made fresh, to revive, enliven, invigorate, rejuvenate, energize, restore, recharge or revitalize. A meager cup of lukewarm coffee comes alive with taste and satisfaction, when mixed with freshly brewed beans. A lukewarm life is warmed and encouraged, when refreshed with words of encouragement and acts of kindness. Everyone we meet become candidates for refreshment.
Our faith cools down when Christ seems silent and circumstances continue to crumble, but a sincere prayer from a righteous friend restores and warms our confidence. Our hope feels deferred in the face of disappointment and rejection, but we are energized by the acceptance and love of a community of believers in Jesus. Hope loves company. Seek refreshment from your Savior and His followers. Be refreshed, so you can refresh others.
When your parched soul has been watered by dew from heaven, you can lead others to the Lord’s watering hole. People are frantic from feeling robbed by insensitive institutions and greedy governments, but we can reconnect them to their generous God. Jesus gives us an abundant life to be shared with others absent of abundance. “I have come that they may have life, and that they may have it more abundantly” (John 10:10b).
Lastly, your refreshment reciprocates refreshment. When you refresh another financially, you are refreshed by faith and fulfillment. When you refresh another emotionally, you are refreshed by peace and contentment. When you refresh another spiritually, you are refreshed by the grace and love of God. Are you in need of refreshment? If so, receive Christ’s full cup of joy. Drink often with the Lord, so you can generously refresh friends. The Bible says, “Taste and see that the LORD is good; blessed is the man who takes refuge in him” (Psalm 34:8).
Related Readings: Ruth 2:14; Psalm 41:1; Matthew 25:34-35; 2 Corinthians 9:6-7
Transformational Living
How can I stay in a routine of refreshment, so I in turn can refresh others?
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My thoughts!
You have my attention, anytime you talk about coffee. And it's true, I often feel like lukewarm coffee and I so enjoy the warmer up of the new fresh hot coffee. I've had a few experiences lately that have been a true warming up of my spiritual cup. Thank you GOD!
2.20.2009
Boyd Bailey: Be a Blessing…
“So he [Jacob] went to him and kissed him. When Isaac caught the smell of his clothes, he blessed him and said…” Genesis 27:27 a
What is a blessing? It represents God’s goodwill. Furthermore, He uses people as a channel for His blessing. It invokes divine favor, and confers well-being and prosperity to others. We all long for blessing. We desire blessing from God, and blessing from those we love and respect. This high level of approval and support comes in a variety of forms.
It can be words of admonishment and instruction. It represents words that paint a larger context of God’s overall will and purpose for your life. Blessings not only represent God’s favor and direction, but they also sanction support from other servants of Christ. So, where does this longing to be blessed lead? It means you first receive the blessing of God and others, so you in turn can be a blessing.
Think today, how you can be a blessing to another. How can you give people a divine context, so they recognize and enjoy God’s purpose in their life? Perhaps it is a quiet private prayer for them. Or, the Lord may lead you to publicly lay hands on someone, while asking for His blessing to reside on their life and work. Your bold blessing may be just what someone needs as they continue in their faithfulness to their family and faith. It can be a simple word of encouragement, or a letter of gratitude.
Your blessing to others can be formal or informal. Think of creative ways to formally bless your children as they transition into adulthood, or how you can informally bless a friend launching into a new career. In Christ we bless others, without Christ we curse others. If we do nothing, people are prone to fill in the blank with negative thoughts and feelings. What power you have through the power of a blessing. Use it prayerfully and happily. Have you been blessed, so you can bless? The Bible says, “Her children arise and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her…” (Proverbs 31:28).
Related Readings: Genesis 5:2; 2 Samuel 6:20; 1 Peter 3:9; Revelation 1:3
Transformational Living
Who can I bless today that may not feel worthy of a blessing?
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My thoughts!
I have a mentor at work that shared some developmental reading material with me. I read it and really discovered a lot about myself. The reading material was a blessing and what I do with it will be a bless everyone around me (work and home)!
What is a blessing? It represents God’s goodwill. Furthermore, He uses people as a channel for His blessing. It invokes divine favor, and confers well-being and prosperity to others. We all long for blessing. We desire blessing from God, and blessing from those we love and respect. This high level of approval and support comes in a variety of forms.
It can be words of admonishment and instruction. It represents words that paint a larger context of God’s overall will and purpose for your life. Blessings not only represent God’s favor and direction, but they also sanction support from other servants of Christ. So, where does this longing to be blessed lead? It means you first receive the blessing of God and others, so you in turn can be a blessing.
Think today, how you can be a blessing to another. How can you give people a divine context, so they recognize and enjoy God’s purpose in their life? Perhaps it is a quiet private prayer for them. Or, the Lord may lead you to publicly lay hands on someone, while asking for His blessing to reside on their life and work. Your bold blessing may be just what someone needs as they continue in their faithfulness to their family and faith. It can be a simple word of encouragement, or a letter of gratitude.
Your blessing to others can be formal or informal. Think of creative ways to formally bless your children as they transition into adulthood, or how you can informally bless a friend launching into a new career. In Christ we bless others, without Christ we curse others. If we do nothing, people are prone to fill in the blank with negative thoughts and feelings. What power you have through the power of a blessing. Use it prayerfully and happily. Have you been blessed, so you can bless? The Bible says, “Her children arise and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her…” (Proverbs 31:28).
Related Readings: Genesis 5:2; 2 Samuel 6:20; 1 Peter 3:9; Revelation 1:3
Transformational Living
Who can I bless today that may not feel worthy of a blessing?
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My thoughts!
I have a mentor at work that shared some developmental reading material with me. I read it and really discovered a lot about myself. The reading material was a blessing and what I do with it will be a bless everyone around me (work and home)!
2.16.2009
Boyd Bailey: Influential Wife…
“…Listen to whatever Sarah tells you, because it is through Isaac that your offspring will be reckoned.” Genesis 21:12 b
Listen to your wife; she can be God’s voice of wisdom and/or His heavenly sand paper. Especially when you are in distress over a decision, she can bring perspective and calm to the situation. If you are tempted to make a dumb decision, she is there to remind you of your convictions. She is built-in accountability, even when we don’t want to hear her voice. It may rub us the wrong way, but this irritation is how the Lord gets our attention.
Why does God frequently speak through your wife? One reason is she has your best interest in mind. You became one in marriage. As your decisions go, so goes your marriage and family. She wants you to be successful, because your success or failure is a reflection of your relationship with her. Furthermore, she wants you to make wise decisions because she loves you. “Love rejoices with the truth” (1 Corinthians 13:6b).
Still, it is sometimes hard to listen to your wife, even when you know it’s God’s desire and you can see the obvious benefits it provides. Perhaps you question her motive, or her way of communicating is overbearing. If it is a question of motive, ask her why she is suggesting to you her advice. If her method of communication is harsh or untimely, address this with her, but still receive the truth. Suggest to her how and when to speak the truth in love.
So wives, share your intuition in love and in a timely fashion; and husbands, listen intently and respectfully with an eye toward implementation. Are you listening to learn from your lover? “It [love] always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres” (1 Corinthians 13:7).
Related Readings: 1 Samuel 8:7-9; Isaiah 46:10; Romans 9:7-8; Hebrews 11:17-18
Transformational Living
What wisdom is my wife imparting that I need to heed and follow?
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My thoughts!
God is trying to do something in my life with this devotion! God, Please help me to receive it!
Listen to your wife; she can be God’s voice of wisdom and/or His heavenly sand paper. Especially when you are in distress over a decision, she can bring perspective and calm to the situation. If you are tempted to make a dumb decision, she is there to remind you of your convictions. She is built-in accountability, even when we don’t want to hear her voice. It may rub us the wrong way, but this irritation is how the Lord gets our attention.
Why does God frequently speak through your wife? One reason is she has your best interest in mind. You became one in marriage. As your decisions go, so goes your marriage and family. She wants you to be successful, because your success or failure is a reflection of your relationship with her. Furthermore, she wants you to make wise decisions because she loves you. “Love rejoices with the truth” (1 Corinthians 13:6b).
Still, it is sometimes hard to listen to your wife, even when you know it’s God’s desire and you can see the obvious benefits it provides. Perhaps you question her motive, or her way of communicating is overbearing. If it is a question of motive, ask her why she is suggesting to you her advice. If her method of communication is harsh or untimely, address this with her, but still receive the truth. Suggest to her how and when to speak the truth in love.
So wives, share your intuition in love and in a timely fashion; and husbands, listen intently and respectfully with an eye toward implementation. Are you listening to learn from your lover? “It [love] always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres” (1 Corinthians 13:7).
Related Readings: 1 Samuel 8:7-9; Isaiah 46:10; Romans 9:7-8; Hebrews 11:17-18
Transformational Living
What wisdom is my wife imparting that I need to heed and follow?
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My thoughts!
God is trying to do something in my life with this devotion! God, Please help me to receive it!
2.13.2009
Boyd Bailey: Appointments for Love…
“Let us go early to the vineyards to see if the vines have budded, if their blossoms have opened, and if the pomegranates are in bloom—there I will give you my love.” Song of Songs 7:12
Many things compete with our marriages. Work competes with our marriages. Children compete with our marriages. Parents compete with our marriages. Money competes with our marriages. Hobbies compete with our marriages. Friends compete with our marriages. Volunteerism competes with our marriages. Our own selfish desires compete with our marriages. Life in general competes with our marriages.
So, it is wise to transform this competition to our marriages into a compliment to our marriages. When we make marriage a priority, the other important things that clamor for our attention become secondary and supportive. Marriage is not meant to get the leftovers of our lives. Its vitality will melt in the face of neglect. Yet, if we are intentional with our marriage appointments, it will flourish with freshness and energy.
Indeed, something in our life becomes a priority when it is recognized and embraced by our calendar. A marriage void of calendared appointments is a candidate for indifference with intimacy. Husbands and wives need focused and quantity time with each other. Quality time flows out of quantity time, and is a consequence of a distraction-less environment. Cell phones are silenced, and there is a cease-fire from interruptions. There is a 'fast' from e-mail, so there can be focus on friendship. Co-existing does not create intimacy in marriage, but intentionality toward intimacy does.
Therefore, make an appointment to love your spouse. Pull out your calendars and create a time for just the two of you. The best gift you can give to your children, next to faith in God, is a healthy marriage. Make an appointment for emotional love. Make an appointment for physical love. And make an appointment for relational love. Emotional love may be unfiltered listening and learning about the fears and fantasies of the other. Make your spouse feel secure by being trustworthy and respectful. Listen intently to their struggles and disappointments. Emotional love thrives on unconditional care and concern.
Secondly, facilitate physical love. Fatigue and busyness are twin tyrants looming over physical love. However, you can dethrone these tyrants with focused time. Romance one another with a date night. Dress up and smell good, as if it were a grand occasion. Woo each other with the fire and excitement of your youth. Yes, physical intimacy needs to be planned and prepared, and any spontaneous rendezvous becomes dessert to your dates.
Lastly, regularly rejuvenate relational love as your spouse’s best friend. Enjoy a hobby together. Read a book together. Watch a movie together. Love on each other with written notes and acts of service. It may even be working on a project around the house or planning the finances. Make relational deposits in your marriage and your bank account of intimacy will increase. Above all else, make an appointment to love God, and be loved by God. Your spouse will love you better if they love Jesus more than they love you. Have you made reservations yet?
Transformational Living
How can I create a romantic environment my spouse would love and appreciate?
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My thoughts!
Marriage is not meant to get the leftovers of our lives. This is so true! Mel and I just last night had an amazing talk about this very topic! It takes work. It's not like were carefree 19 and 20 years old anymore. We're not 30 somethings with 2 amazing boys. Now, We have to pull out the calendar and create a time for just the two of us. And spending time chatting the budget on a Saturday night is a date! Man how the times have change and I wouldn't go back for anything.
Many things compete with our marriages. Work competes with our marriages. Children compete with our marriages. Parents compete with our marriages. Money competes with our marriages. Hobbies compete with our marriages. Friends compete with our marriages. Volunteerism competes with our marriages. Our own selfish desires compete with our marriages. Life in general competes with our marriages.
So, it is wise to transform this competition to our marriages into a compliment to our marriages. When we make marriage a priority, the other important things that clamor for our attention become secondary and supportive. Marriage is not meant to get the leftovers of our lives. Its vitality will melt in the face of neglect. Yet, if we are intentional with our marriage appointments, it will flourish with freshness and energy.
Indeed, something in our life becomes a priority when it is recognized and embraced by our calendar. A marriage void of calendared appointments is a candidate for indifference with intimacy. Husbands and wives need focused and quantity time with each other. Quality time flows out of quantity time, and is a consequence of a distraction-less environment. Cell phones are silenced, and there is a cease-fire from interruptions. There is a 'fast' from e-mail, so there can be focus on friendship. Co-existing does not create intimacy in marriage, but intentionality toward intimacy does.
Therefore, make an appointment to love your spouse. Pull out your calendars and create a time for just the two of you. The best gift you can give to your children, next to faith in God, is a healthy marriage. Make an appointment for emotional love. Make an appointment for physical love. And make an appointment for relational love. Emotional love may be unfiltered listening and learning about the fears and fantasies of the other. Make your spouse feel secure by being trustworthy and respectful. Listen intently to their struggles and disappointments. Emotional love thrives on unconditional care and concern.
Secondly, facilitate physical love. Fatigue and busyness are twin tyrants looming over physical love. However, you can dethrone these tyrants with focused time. Romance one another with a date night. Dress up and smell good, as if it were a grand occasion. Woo each other with the fire and excitement of your youth. Yes, physical intimacy needs to be planned and prepared, and any spontaneous rendezvous becomes dessert to your dates.
Lastly, regularly rejuvenate relational love as your spouse’s best friend. Enjoy a hobby together. Read a book together. Watch a movie together. Love on each other with written notes and acts of service. It may even be working on a project around the house or planning the finances. Make relational deposits in your marriage and your bank account of intimacy will increase. Above all else, make an appointment to love God, and be loved by God. Your spouse will love you better if they love Jesus more than they love you. Have you made reservations yet?
Transformational Living
How can I create a romantic environment my spouse would love and appreciate?
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My thoughts!
Marriage is not meant to get the leftovers of our lives. This is so true! Mel and I just last night had an amazing talk about this very topic! It takes work. It's not like were carefree 19 and 20 years old anymore. We're not 30 somethings with 2 amazing boys. Now, We have to pull out the calendar and create a time for just the two of us. And spending time chatting the budget on a Saturday night is a date! Man how the times have change and I wouldn't go back for anything.
Boyd Bailey: Benefits of Kindness…
“A kindhearted woman gains respect, but ruthless men gain only wealth. A kind man benefits himself, but a cruel man brings trouble on himself” (Proverbs 11:16-17).
Kindness benefits everyone. It brings joy to the giver, and peace to the receiver. The recipient reciprocates it because respect is embedded in kindness. Kindheartedness facilitates respect, as it treats others with dignity and honor. Even when offended or ostracized, a gracious heart takes the higher ground of humility and gentleness. It may not be liked, but it is respected. Kind actions attract the Almighty’s approval.
What is kindness? At its core it is a reflection of Christ. It is what we expect of the Lord, when we desire good things. Listen to the heart of this employee’s prayer for his boss to experience God’s kindness in marriage, “O Lord, God of my master Abraham, give me success today, and show kindness to my master Abraham” (Genesis 24:12). In the same way your Savior shows you kindness in salvation and His severe mercy.
Furthermore, because of Christ’s great kindness, you are compelled to compassionate actions. Ruthless men and women use whatever means of fear and intimidation to gain wealth and power, but considerate adults do not compromise their character for cash or influence. Indeed, God’s great kindness grants us the favor we need. The Bible says, “The Lord was with him [Joseph]; he showed him kindness and granted him favor in the eyes of the prison warden” (Genesis 39:21).
Who doesn’t need kindness? The undeserving especially needs your kindness, as a reminder of God’s lasting love and infinite forgiveness. Be kind to the unkind, and they will see what really rests in your heart of hearts. Your kindheartedness will lead others to your source in Jesus Christ. Here the kindness of the Lord leads to repentance. The Bible says, “Or do you show contempt for the riches of his kindness, tolerance and patience, not realizing that God’s kindness leads you toward repentance?” (Romans 2:4).
Related Readings: Joshua 2:12; Ruth 3:10; Acts 4:9; Ephesians 2:6-8
Transformational Living
To whom can I extend kindness that has been unkind to me?
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My thoughts!
This is AWESOME: What is kindness? At its core it is a reflection of Christ.
Kindness benefits everyone. It brings joy to the giver, and peace to the receiver. The recipient reciprocates it because respect is embedded in kindness. Kindheartedness facilitates respect, as it treats others with dignity and honor. Even when offended or ostracized, a gracious heart takes the higher ground of humility and gentleness. It may not be liked, but it is respected. Kind actions attract the Almighty’s approval.
What is kindness? At its core it is a reflection of Christ. It is what we expect of the Lord, when we desire good things. Listen to the heart of this employee’s prayer for his boss to experience God’s kindness in marriage, “O Lord, God of my master Abraham, give me success today, and show kindness to my master Abraham” (Genesis 24:12). In the same way your Savior shows you kindness in salvation and His severe mercy.
Furthermore, because of Christ’s great kindness, you are compelled to compassionate actions. Ruthless men and women use whatever means of fear and intimidation to gain wealth and power, but considerate adults do not compromise their character for cash or influence. Indeed, God’s great kindness grants us the favor we need. The Bible says, “The Lord was with him [Joseph]; he showed him kindness and granted him favor in the eyes of the prison warden” (Genesis 39:21).
Who doesn’t need kindness? The undeserving especially needs your kindness, as a reminder of God’s lasting love and infinite forgiveness. Be kind to the unkind, and they will see what really rests in your heart of hearts. Your kindheartedness will lead others to your source in Jesus Christ. Here the kindness of the Lord leads to repentance. The Bible says, “Or do you show contempt for the riches of his kindness, tolerance and patience, not realizing that God’s kindness leads you toward repentance?” (Romans 2:4).
Related Readings: Joshua 2:12; Ruth 3:10; Acts 4:9; Ephesians 2:6-8
Transformational Living
To whom can I extend kindness that has been unkind to me?
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My thoughts!
This is AWESOME: What is kindness? At its core it is a reflection of Christ.
Boyd Bailey: A City Movement…
“When the righteous prosper, the city rejoices; when the wicked perish, there are shouts of joy. Through the blessing of the upright a city is exalted…” Proverbs 11:10-11
How can we capture our cities for Christ? In the process, could our municipalities move more toward institutions of integrity? Perhaps it starts with each one of us who claim Jesus Christ as Savior. It is up to us to first get down on our knees, and get down to business with our Heavenly Father. The people of God make up the city of God. It is through our confession and repentance of sin, that the city is set up for blessings from the Lord.
A city is not meant to be a passive party to the ways of wickedness. Daniel understood this, and prayed this passionate prayer for his city, “O Lord, in keeping with all your righteous acts, turn away your anger and your wrath from Jerusalem, your city, your holy hill. Our sins and the iniquities of our fathers have made Jerusalem and your people an object of scorn to all those around us” (Daniel 9:16).
Indeed, a city movement for Christ is birthed out of passionate prayer and brokenness. Jesus cried out for His city, “As he approached Jerusalem and saw the city, he wept over it…”(Luke 19:41). Our tears become a tool of the Holy Spirit to transform us, and others. There is healing as sorrow turns to joy. The early church rejoiced over this unleashing of the Lord’s power, “So there was great joy in that city” (Acts 8:8).
Lastly, a city moved along by the Holy Spirit becomes a shining light of its Savior Jesus. He exalts the community on His hill of hope for all to see, to believe, and to be saved. Jesus says, “You are the light of the world. A city on a hill cannot be hidden” (Matthew 5:14). So, we solemnly ask, “Have I claimed my city for Christ? Am I part of His movement?
Related Readings: Genesis 41:38-42; Isaiah 16:5; Acts 13:44; Acts 16:13-15
Transformational Living
Whom can I invite to passionately pray with me over our city’s movement toward God?
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My thoughts!
This is an amazing thought that I've never thought about before! I live the thought that A city on a hill cannot be hidden! We, as Christians, should too want to be like the city on the hill.
How can we capture our cities for Christ? In the process, could our municipalities move more toward institutions of integrity? Perhaps it starts with each one of us who claim Jesus Christ as Savior. It is up to us to first get down on our knees, and get down to business with our Heavenly Father. The people of God make up the city of God. It is through our confession and repentance of sin, that the city is set up for blessings from the Lord.
A city is not meant to be a passive party to the ways of wickedness. Daniel understood this, and prayed this passionate prayer for his city, “O Lord, in keeping with all your righteous acts, turn away your anger and your wrath from Jerusalem, your city, your holy hill. Our sins and the iniquities of our fathers have made Jerusalem and your people an object of scorn to all those around us” (Daniel 9:16).
Indeed, a city movement for Christ is birthed out of passionate prayer and brokenness. Jesus cried out for His city, “As he approached Jerusalem and saw the city, he wept over it…”(Luke 19:41). Our tears become a tool of the Holy Spirit to transform us, and others. There is healing as sorrow turns to joy. The early church rejoiced over this unleashing of the Lord’s power, “So there was great joy in that city” (Acts 8:8).
Lastly, a city moved along by the Holy Spirit becomes a shining light of its Savior Jesus. He exalts the community on His hill of hope for all to see, to believe, and to be saved. Jesus says, “You are the light of the world. A city on a hill cannot be hidden” (Matthew 5:14). So, we solemnly ask, “Have I claimed my city for Christ? Am I part of His movement?
Related Readings: Genesis 41:38-42; Isaiah 16:5; Acts 13:44; Acts 16:13-15
Transformational Living
Whom can I invite to passionately pray with me over our city’s movement toward God?
++++++++++++++++
My thoughts!
This is an amazing thought that I've never thought about before! I live the thought that A city on a hill cannot be hidden! We, as Christians, should too want to be like the city on the hill.
2.10.2009
Boyd Bailey: Faith Stretcher…
“Abraham fell facedown; he laughed and said to himself, ‘Will a son be born to a man a hundred years old? Will Sarah bear a child at the age of ninety?” Genesis 17:17
Sometimes God’s will is not logical or doesn’t even seem possible. Abraham certainly struggled with the idea of being a parent as a centenarian, and his wife conceiving at ninety years of age. It wasn’t possible; it didn’t make sense. Yet in reality all things are possible with God, and this was one of them.
The Lord made a promise that was out of the ordinary. He wanted to mark this occasion with an indelible stamp of a “God thing”. Abraham tried to let God off the hook of this miraculous method by offering Him another plan. However, God was not interested in another plan, He was interested in setting the stage for a blessing that would validate his sovereignty and that would take the faith of Abraham, Sarah and an entire nation to a whole other level. God wants us and He wants us to take Him at his word.
Why is it hard to take God at His word? Why do we struggle with believing in something that is not logical or that takes us out of our comfort zone? One reason we struggle is because of our perception of God. We make Him so small. We bring Him down to our level rather than allowing him to pull us up to his level! This is man-centered thinking; instead let’s allow God to be God.
Faith allows us to travel places with God that we would never experience otherwise. Wouldn’t you rather be in the middle of a lake in a storm with Jesus, than on the calm shore around a warm fire without him? This is where faith trumps logic. We trust Him when it doesn’t make sense; we follow Him when we are not sure of the destination. We believe him when others think we are strange, too religious or even fanatical. Let your Savior stretch your faith, and trust Him with the opportunity in front of you. Has your laughter turned to trust in God, and awe of His accomplishments? The Bible says, “Your father Abraham rejoiced to see My day, and he saw it and was glad” (John 8:46, NASB).
Related Readings: Deuteronomy 9:18-25; Psalm 126:1; Matthew 2:11; Romans 4:20
Transformational Living
What impossibility am I facing, but will trust God that with Him it’s possible?
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My thoughts!
I love the story of Abraham & Sarah! We named our son Isaac "to laugh" because of this story. GOD is awesome in what he can do.
I love this line because it's so true. We make Him so small. We bring Him down to our level rather than allowing him to pull us up to his level! This is man-centered thinking; instead let’s allow God to be God.
Can you only imagine what this world would be like if we all allowed GOD to pull us up to his level!!!
Sometimes God’s will is not logical or doesn’t even seem possible. Abraham certainly struggled with the idea of being a parent as a centenarian, and his wife conceiving at ninety years of age. It wasn’t possible; it didn’t make sense. Yet in reality all things are possible with God, and this was one of them.
The Lord made a promise that was out of the ordinary. He wanted to mark this occasion with an indelible stamp of a “God thing”. Abraham tried to let God off the hook of this miraculous method by offering Him another plan. However, God was not interested in another plan, He was interested in setting the stage for a blessing that would validate his sovereignty and that would take the faith of Abraham, Sarah and an entire nation to a whole other level. God wants us and He wants us to take Him at his word.
Why is it hard to take God at His word? Why do we struggle with believing in something that is not logical or that takes us out of our comfort zone? One reason we struggle is because of our perception of God. We make Him so small. We bring Him down to our level rather than allowing him to pull us up to his level! This is man-centered thinking; instead let’s allow God to be God.
Faith allows us to travel places with God that we would never experience otherwise. Wouldn’t you rather be in the middle of a lake in a storm with Jesus, than on the calm shore around a warm fire without him? This is where faith trumps logic. We trust Him when it doesn’t make sense; we follow Him when we are not sure of the destination. We believe him when others think we are strange, too religious or even fanatical. Let your Savior stretch your faith, and trust Him with the opportunity in front of you. Has your laughter turned to trust in God, and awe of His accomplishments? The Bible says, “Your father Abraham rejoiced to see My day, and he saw it and was glad” (John 8:46, NASB).
Related Readings: Deuteronomy 9:18-25; Psalm 126:1; Matthew 2:11; Romans 4:20
Transformational Living
What impossibility am I facing, but will trust God that with Him it’s possible?
++++++++++++++++
My thoughts!
I love the story of Abraham & Sarah! We named our son Isaac "to laugh" because of this story. GOD is awesome in what he can do.
I love this line because it's so true. We make Him so small. We bring Him down to our level rather than allowing him to pull us up to his level! This is man-centered thinking; instead let’s allow God to be God.
Can you only imagine what this world would be like if we all allowed GOD to pull us up to his level!!!
2.06.2009
Boyd Bailey: Possessions Complicate…
“Their possessions were so great that they were not able to stay together. And quarreling arose…” Genesis 13:6 b, 7 a
Abram and Lot had a lot of stuff. They were blessed with family, friends and finances. However, things became complicated and they were unable to coexist with each another. Though they needed one another, they could not stay with one another. The fear of losing their possessions superseded the joy of growing their relationship. So they divided, and as a result of their vulnerability, Lot lost everything. Jesus said, “A household divided against itself will not stand…”(Matthew 12:25).
Possessions are not wrong in and of themselves. However, when the management of your wealth compromises your loyalty to people, there is a problem. Possessions should be subservient to people, otherwise things get out of kilter. People know if you value your net worth over them. So how do we keep this balance between possessions and people?
Begin with an inventory of your time. How do you spend your time? Do you spend more time in managing your stuff, or loving on people? You may need to sell some of your property, or better yet give it away. If your possessions have priority over people, there is a problem. Ask yourself, “Does my stuff compete with my relationship with God?” Perhaps you downsize your stuff, so you can upsize your focus on your Heavenly Father.
By God’s grace, use the material fortune he has entrusted to you as a magnet that draws you closer to God and people. Use your blessing of discretionary time to bless others. The Bible says, “Command those who are rich in this present world not to be arrogant nor to put their hope in wealth, which is so uncertain, but to put their hope in God, who richly provides us with everything for our enjoyment. Command them to do good, to be rich in good deeds, and to be generous and willing to share. In this way they will lay up treasure for themselves as a firm foundation for the coming age, so that they may take hold of the life that is truly life” (1 Timothy 6:17-19).
Related Readings: Genesis 36:6-7; Ecclesiastes 5:10-11; Luke 3:11; 2 Corinthians 9:6-15
Transformational Living
How can I position my possessions, so the Lord possesses more of me, and my family?
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My thoughts!
Jesus said, “A household divided against itself will not stand…”(Matthew 12:25). This is something that is playing out before my eyes and is so true! God, Please extend your hand of peace and understanding over my family.
Abram and Lot had a lot of stuff. They were blessed with family, friends and finances. However, things became complicated and they were unable to coexist with each another. Though they needed one another, they could not stay with one another. The fear of losing their possessions superseded the joy of growing their relationship. So they divided, and as a result of their vulnerability, Lot lost everything. Jesus said, “A household divided against itself will not stand…”(Matthew 12:25).
Possessions are not wrong in and of themselves. However, when the management of your wealth compromises your loyalty to people, there is a problem. Possessions should be subservient to people, otherwise things get out of kilter. People know if you value your net worth over them. So how do we keep this balance between possessions and people?
Begin with an inventory of your time. How do you spend your time? Do you spend more time in managing your stuff, or loving on people? You may need to sell some of your property, or better yet give it away. If your possessions have priority over people, there is a problem. Ask yourself, “Does my stuff compete with my relationship with God?” Perhaps you downsize your stuff, so you can upsize your focus on your Heavenly Father.
By God’s grace, use the material fortune he has entrusted to you as a magnet that draws you closer to God and people. Use your blessing of discretionary time to bless others. The Bible says, “Command those who are rich in this present world not to be arrogant nor to put their hope in wealth, which is so uncertain, but to put their hope in God, who richly provides us with everything for our enjoyment. Command them to do good, to be rich in good deeds, and to be generous and willing to share. In this way they will lay up treasure for themselves as a firm foundation for the coming age, so that they may take hold of the life that is truly life” (1 Timothy 6:17-19).
Related Readings: Genesis 36:6-7; Ecclesiastes 5:10-11; Luke 3:11; 2 Corinthians 9:6-15
Transformational Living
How can I position my possessions, so the Lord possesses more of me, and my family?
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My thoughts!
Jesus said, “A household divided against itself will not stand…”(Matthew 12:25). This is something that is playing out before my eyes and is so true! God, Please extend your hand of peace and understanding over my family.
Boyd Bailey: Righteous Resolve…
“The righteous will never be uprooted, but the wicked will not remain in the land.” Proverbs 10:30
Resolve is the result of righteous living. There is a determination deep within a soul dependent on God. When you are established in the faith, no one can remove you away from Christ’s call. He has appointed you to this post of service. Do not leave until the Lord reassigns you. Righteous resolve decides to stay put, so by faith, keep on for Christ.
It probably means you disappoint some, and invigorate others. However, if your goal is to first trust and obey the Lord, you will be misunderstood by some and rejected by others. Friends may even urge you to move on, but you cannot because Christ has not released you. Your resolve is His resolve. Therefore, you persevere through pain, suffering and uncertainty. Righteous resolve remains, regardless of the consequences, good or bad.
Moreover, there is a righteous resolve to remain in Christ (see John 15:5). Your conversion to Christianity was a resolution to abide under the influence of Almighty God. You stay true to your commitment to Christ, because of the joy that comes from following Jesus. The ‘meek inherit the earth’ (Matthew 5:5), while the wicked don’t.
Lastly, you cannot lose what you give away, and you cannot keep what you will not release. Indeed, a righteous resolve has a relentless trust in the Lord. Obedience, generosity and contentment all require tenacious trust. Therefore, resolve in your heart to go hard after God. Release your relentless pursuits, only after he has released you. Perhaps you ask, ‘Is my resolve righteous, or is it contingent on circumstances?’ The Bible says, “Alarmed, Jehoshaphat resolved to inquire of the LORD” (2 Chronicles 20:3).
Related Readings: Psalm 15:5; Daniel 1:8; Romans 8:35-39; 1 Corinthians 2:2
Transformational Living
Where do I need a righteous resolve, and remain true to my commitment and calling?
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My thoughts!
I have to admit I love the word "TENACIOUS" so here's what caught my eye today! Obedience, generosity and contentment all require tenacious trust.
Resolve is the result of righteous living. There is a determination deep within a soul dependent on God. When you are established in the faith, no one can remove you away from Christ’s call. He has appointed you to this post of service. Do not leave until the Lord reassigns you. Righteous resolve decides to stay put, so by faith, keep on for Christ.
It probably means you disappoint some, and invigorate others. However, if your goal is to first trust and obey the Lord, you will be misunderstood by some and rejected by others. Friends may even urge you to move on, but you cannot because Christ has not released you. Your resolve is His resolve. Therefore, you persevere through pain, suffering and uncertainty. Righteous resolve remains, regardless of the consequences, good or bad.
Moreover, there is a righteous resolve to remain in Christ (see John 15:5). Your conversion to Christianity was a resolution to abide under the influence of Almighty God. You stay true to your commitment to Christ, because of the joy that comes from following Jesus. The ‘meek inherit the earth’ (Matthew 5:5), while the wicked don’t.
Lastly, you cannot lose what you give away, and you cannot keep what you will not release. Indeed, a righteous resolve has a relentless trust in the Lord. Obedience, generosity and contentment all require tenacious trust. Therefore, resolve in your heart to go hard after God. Release your relentless pursuits, only after he has released you. Perhaps you ask, ‘Is my resolve righteous, or is it contingent on circumstances?’ The Bible says, “Alarmed, Jehoshaphat resolved to inquire of the LORD” (2 Chronicles 20:3).
Related Readings: Psalm 15:5; Daniel 1:8; Romans 8:35-39; 1 Corinthians 2:2
Transformational Living
Where do I need a righteous resolve, and remain true to my commitment and calling?
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My thoughts!
I have to admit I love the word "TENACIOUS" so here's what caught my eye today! Obedience, generosity and contentment all require tenacious trust.
Boyd Bailey: Economic Storm…
“When the storm has swept by, the wicked are gone, but the righteous stand firm forever.” Proverbs 10:25
Economic storms expose evil. Like when the ocean tide goes out, you are able to see those in the water who are naked. Dead wood is swept away, no more to be seen. It may seem like the wicked are prospering, but eventually they will be found out. The Holy Spirit shakes out sin, so it can be seen and judged. As the Lord promised His children in the past, “I will shake the house of Israel” (Amos 9:9).
What used to make a lot of noise and draw the attention of the elite, has lost its creditability under scrutiny. Economic storms collapse businesses and ministries who are dependent on debt, and conversely they cause good churches to increase in attendance. There is a purging of pride, and all manner of excess is exposed. What really matters in life: faith, family, friends, food and shelter become priority. Storms reveal worth.
Moreover, those who cling to Christ are not shaken. He is our cornerstone that no degree of chaos can challenge. The Bible says, “Those who trust in the Lord are like Mount Zion, which cannot be shaken but endures forever” (Psalm 125:1). The righteous cannot be moved, because their Master is immovable. Therefore, stand firm in the Lord.
Furthermore, your stability in your Savior is security for your family, friends and work associates. Your unwavering faith during difficult days helps them replace panic with peace, fear with faith, and compromise with conviction. Indeed, if all you have left is a firm foundation of faith, begin building back God’s big vision. Are you a wise builder? Jesus said, “Therefore everyone who hears these words of mine and puts them into practice is like a wise man who built his house on the rock” (Matthew 7:24).
Related Readings: Job 20:5; Psalm 37:10; Acts 2:25; Hebrews 12:28
Transformational Living
How can I build my life, home and work on the solid rock of Jesus.
Economic storms expose evil. Like when the ocean tide goes out, you are able to see those in the water who are naked. Dead wood is swept away, no more to be seen. It may seem like the wicked are prospering, but eventually they will be found out. The Holy Spirit shakes out sin, so it can be seen and judged. As the Lord promised His children in the past, “I will shake the house of Israel” (Amos 9:9).
What used to make a lot of noise and draw the attention of the elite, has lost its creditability under scrutiny. Economic storms collapse businesses and ministries who are dependent on debt, and conversely they cause good churches to increase in attendance. There is a purging of pride, and all manner of excess is exposed. What really matters in life: faith, family, friends, food and shelter become priority. Storms reveal worth.
Moreover, those who cling to Christ are not shaken. He is our cornerstone that no degree of chaos can challenge. The Bible says, “Those who trust in the Lord are like Mount Zion, which cannot be shaken but endures forever” (Psalm 125:1). The righteous cannot be moved, because their Master is immovable. Therefore, stand firm in the Lord.
Furthermore, your stability in your Savior is security for your family, friends and work associates. Your unwavering faith during difficult days helps them replace panic with peace, fear with faith, and compromise with conviction. Indeed, if all you have left is a firm foundation of faith, begin building back God’s big vision. Are you a wise builder? Jesus said, “Therefore everyone who hears these words of mine and puts them into practice is like a wise man who built his house on the rock” (Matthew 7:24).
Related Readings: Job 20:5; Psalm 37:10; Acts 2:25; Hebrews 12:28
Transformational Living
How can I build my life, home and work on the solid rock of Jesus.
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My thoughts!
I love this: Storms reveal worth.
My thoughts!
I love this: Storms reveal worth.
Boyd Bailey: Tempered Talk…
“When words are many, sin is not absent, but he who holds his tongue is wise.” Proverbs 10:19
Tempered talk is evidence of a wise conversationalist. It’s when our words are many that we run the risk of soliciting sin. Increase in the amount of words increases the probability of improper speech. For example, a respectful conversation does not repeat over and over again the same words and phrases in a confined period of time. This impatient cadence frustrates the listener.
Perhaps a look of misunderstanding requires questions for clarification, or definitions for comprehension. Proud conversationalists can highjack a hearer’s understanding with a hoard of meaningless words. If your goal is to communicate, then take the time to listen to the needs of your audience. People who feel cared for and understood have a keener sense of hearing and understanding. The Bible says, “Even a fool is thought wise if he keeps silent, and discerning if he holds his tongue” (Proverbs 17:28).
Wise people weigh their words before they speak. They allow their mind to catch up with their heart. Furthermore, in the face of wrong behavior, emotions need to sometimes express themselves. Let the other person know if you feel mistreated or misinformed. Concealed anger leads to living a lie (see Proverbs 10:18), but tempered talk is truthful and to the point.
Lastly, reserve your words out of respect for the other person. If you do all the talking, you are the center of attention. It becomes condescending conversation, because the other individual does not feel important enough to speak up. So, you honor others when you speak less, and listen more intently on how you can love them. Wisdom can be found in the words of each person you meet. Therefore, intentionally talk less and be wise. The Bible says, “My dear brothers, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry…”(James 1:19).
Related Readings: Job 2:3; Amos 5:13; Titus 1:10; James 3:2
Transformational Living
With whom do I need to listen more, and talk less?
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My thoughts!
This is great advise!!!
Tempered talk is evidence of a wise conversationalist. It’s when our words are many that we run the risk of soliciting sin. Increase in the amount of words increases the probability of improper speech. For example, a respectful conversation does not repeat over and over again the same words and phrases in a confined period of time. This impatient cadence frustrates the listener.
Perhaps a look of misunderstanding requires questions for clarification, or definitions for comprehension. Proud conversationalists can highjack a hearer’s understanding with a hoard of meaningless words. If your goal is to communicate, then take the time to listen to the needs of your audience. People who feel cared for and understood have a keener sense of hearing and understanding. The Bible says, “Even a fool is thought wise if he keeps silent, and discerning if he holds his tongue” (Proverbs 17:28).
Wise people weigh their words before they speak. They allow their mind to catch up with their heart. Furthermore, in the face of wrong behavior, emotions need to sometimes express themselves. Let the other person know if you feel mistreated or misinformed. Concealed anger leads to living a lie (see Proverbs 10:18), but tempered talk is truthful and to the point.
Lastly, reserve your words out of respect for the other person. If you do all the talking, you are the center of attention. It becomes condescending conversation, because the other individual does not feel important enough to speak up. So, you honor others when you speak less, and listen more intently on how you can love them. Wisdom can be found in the words of each person you meet. Therefore, intentionally talk less and be wise. The Bible says, “My dear brothers, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry…”(James 1:19).
Related Readings: Job 2:3; Amos 5:13; Titus 1:10; James 3:2
Transformational Living
With whom do I need to listen more, and talk less?
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My thoughts!
This is great advise!!!
2.02.2009
Boyd Bailey: Respectable Leaders…
“Now the overseer must be above reproach, the husband of but one wife, temperate, self-controlled, respectable, hospitable, able to teach, not given to drunkenness, not violent but gentle, not quarrelsome, not a lover of money.” 1 Timothy 3:2-3
Respectability invites respect. You may say, “I can’t get any respect”. If so, what do you base your expectations? Is it your charm, charisma or ability to converse well? All of these do not mean you are respectable; in fact they can repel respect, and garner disrespect. Your skills and gifts require character to convene the admiration of others.
Respect is earned not demanded. It is sustained by influence and not position. Presidents, preachers and parents are given respect by their position, but, if they consistently underperform or lack integrity, they lose respect. It is not a right of the irresponsible, but a privilege of the dependable. Respectable leaders get right results in the right way.
Respectable leaders also rise to the occasion and do the right things. They persevere and provide stability instead of panicking and creating chaos. They take responsibility by espousing the values of the organization, by not gossiping and blaming others. There is a depth of character that runs deep within their soul, not to be stolen by sin.
Lastly, a respectable leader is well thought-of when their track record is one of trustworthiness, honesty, and follow through. However, the goal is not for people to like you. They may not like you when you lovingly hold them accountable, but they will respect you. They may not like your discipline, but they will respect your consistency. They may not embrace your beliefs, but, if expressed in humility, they will respect you. Perhaps you ask, “Am I respectable?” If so, you can expect respect. The Bible says, “A sensible person wins admiration, but a warped mind is despised” (Proverbs 12:8, NLT).
Related Readings: Exodus 18:21; Proverbs 15:27; John 10:12-13; Romans 16:18
Transformational Living
What area of my character needs growth and transformation, so to solicit respect?
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My thoughts!
There is a really important lesson here! Presidents, preachers and parents are given respect by their position, but, if they consistently under preform or lack integrity, they lose respect. It is not a right of the irresponsible, but a privilege of the dependable. Respectable leaders get right results in the right way.
Respectability invites respect. You may say, “I can’t get any respect”. If so, what do you base your expectations? Is it your charm, charisma or ability to converse well? All of these do not mean you are respectable; in fact they can repel respect, and garner disrespect. Your skills and gifts require character to convene the admiration of others.
Respect is earned not demanded. It is sustained by influence and not position. Presidents, preachers and parents are given respect by their position, but, if they consistently underperform or lack integrity, they lose respect. It is not a right of the irresponsible, but a privilege of the dependable. Respectable leaders get right results in the right way.
Respectable leaders also rise to the occasion and do the right things. They persevere and provide stability instead of panicking and creating chaos. They take responsibility by espousing the values of the organization, by not gossiping and blaming others. There is a depth of character that runs deep within their soul, not to be stolen by sin.
Lastly, a respectable leader is well thought-of when their track record is one of trustworthiness, honesty, and follow through. However, the goal is not for people to like you. They may not like you when you lovingly hold them accountable, but they will respect you. They may not like your discipline, but they will respect your consistency. They may not embrace your beliefs, but, if expressed in humility, they will respect you. Perhaps you ask, “Am I respectable?” If so, you can expect respect. The Bible says, “A sensible person wins admiration, but a warped mind is despised” (Proverbs 12:8, NLT).
Related Readings: Exodus 18:21; Proverbs 15:27; John 10:12-13; Romans 16:18
Transformational Living
What area of my character needs growth and transformation, so to solicit respect?
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My thoughts!
There is a really important lesson here! Presidents, preachers and parents are given respect by their position, but, if they consistently under preform or lack integrity, they lose respect. It is not a right of the irresponsible, but a privilege of the dependable. Respectable leaders get right results in the right way.
Boyd Bailey: Love Forgives…
“Hatred stirs up dissension, but love covers over all wrongs.”
Proverbs 10:12
True love forgives regardless of the infraction, because it transcends mistreatment. So, what is your process for forgiveness? Is it conditional, based on the way you are treated, or is it unconditional? Hatred has no hope but to stir up dissension and rally a defense. However, love looks at being wronged as an opportunity to replace insult with encouragement. Love seeks to lead all parties into a better place of health and happiness.
Indeed, hatred is not at home in a heart of love. It sows discord, while love plants peace. It embraces enmity, while love cuddles compassion. Hate stirs up, but love calms down. How do you handle those who are hard to be around? Perhaps out of love you serve them. Seek to serve, rather than be served. The Bible says, “…through love serve one another” (Galatians 5:13b, NASB).
Furthermore, love forgives because you have been forgiven by the matchless love of God. It is the Lord’s love toward you that empowers you to lovingly forgive another. Human love alone is unable to love without boundaries. Left to our own limited love, we only love those who love us. Jesus says, “If you love only those who love you, what reward is there for that? Even corrupt tax collectors do that much” (Matthew 5:46, NLT).
Therefore, look at love as an opportunity to give others what they don’t deserve. Lean on the Lord as your source of unconditional love. Christ’s love is all inclusive and all forgiving. In the same way, love those in your life actively and appropriately. Maybe a kind word, a nice note of appreciation, a thoughtful gift or a listening ear? How do you harness love into a habit of forgiveness? The Bible says, “Most important of all, continue to show deep love for each other, for love covers a multitude of sins” (1 Peter 4:8, NLT).
Related Readings: Leviticus 19:17; Proverbs 17:9; Philippians 1:9; 1 John 4:20-21
Transformational Living
Who do I need to love, forgive and serve in honor of God’s great love?
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My thoughts!
Another one that hits very close to home!
It is the Lord’s love toward you that empowers you to lovingly forgive another. Human love alone is unable to love without boundaries. Left to our own limited love, we only love those who love us. WOW! I've never thought of love in this way!
True love forgives regardless of the infraction, because it transcends mistreatment. So, what is your process for forgiveness? Is it conditional, based on the way you are treated, or is it unconditional? Hatred has no hope but to stir up dissension and rally a defense. However, love looks at being wronged as an opportunity to replace insult with encouragement. Love seeks to lead all parties into a better place of health and happiness.
Indeed, hatred is not at home in a heart of love. It sows discord, while love plants peace. It embraces enmity, while love cuddles compassion. Hate stirs up, but love calms down. How do you handle those who are hard to be around? Perhaps out of love you serve them. Seek to serve, rather than be served. The Bible says, “…through love serve one another” (Galatians 5:13b, NASB).
Furthermore, love forgives because you have been forgiven by the matchless love of God. It is the Lord’s love toward you that empowers you to lovingly forgive another. Human love alone is unable to love without boundaries. Left to our own limited love, we only love those who love us. Jesus says, “If you love only those who love you, what reward is there for that? Even corrupt tax collectors do that much” (Matthew 5:46, NLT).
Therefore, look at love as an opportunity to give others what they don’t deserve. Lean on the Lord as your source of unconditional love. Christ’s love is all inclusive and all forgiving. In the same way, love those in your life actively and appropriately. Maybe a kind word, a nice note of appreciation, a thoughtful gift or a listening ear? How do you harness love into a habit of forgiveness? The Bible says, “Most important of all, continue to show deep love for each other, for love covers a multitude of sins” (1 Peter 4:8, NLT).
Related Readings: Leviticus 19:17; Proverbs 17:9; Philippians 1:9; 1 John 4:20-21
Transformational Living
Who do I need to love, forgive and serve in honor of God’s great love?
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Another one that hits very close to home!
It is the Lord’s love toward you that empowers you to lovingly forgive another. Human love alone is unable to love without boundaries. Left to our own limited love, we only love those who love us. WOW! I've never thought of love in this way!
Boyd Bailey: Hurt Hurts…
“He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.” Psalm 147:3
Hurting people hurt people. They have been wounded in the past, so they have not been healed in the present. It is very difficult for everyone, because the wounded one simmers in silent suffering, until they lash out at a loved one. Unless they are made whole by the grace of God, there will be no relational restoration with the Lord and others.
Do you or someone you love walk around with a wounded heart? Your hurt may be the result of an extreme let down from someone you trusted and admired: a parent, or an abusive authority figure. This may explain your resistance to accountability and unwillingness to submit to authority. However, the gospel of Jesus Christ is all about binding up the broken hearted. He came with healing in His wings for hurting hearts (see Malachi 4:2).
Jesus says, “The Spirit of the Lord is upon Me, because He has anointed me to preach the gospel to the poor, He has sent me to heal the broken hearted” (Luke 4:18, NKJV). Hurt is healed when we let go of anger and allow the grace of God to replace it with forgiveness and peace. If we remain immature and insist on our way, we will stay stuck in our childish cycle. But Jesus is calling us beyond our adolescent attitudes. Paul struggled with this when he confessed, “I put childish things behind me” (1 Corinthians 13:11).
Lastly, when we cry out to Christ, He heals. Humility is an invitation to intimacy and healing. You can love with a whole heart when the love of the Lord has mended your heart. Perhaps, you seek out a Biblically based Christian counselor, and trust them to lead you into God’s grace and healing. Then, in humility, reach out to those you have wronged and watch relational healing take place. Honestly ask, ‘Has my heart been healed by heaven?’ The Bible says, “I will heal their waywardness and love them freely, for my anger has turned from them” (Hosea 14:4).
Related Readings: 2 Chronicles 7:14; Malachi 4:2; James 5:16; 1 Peter 2:24
Transformational Living
Is my heart healthy and whole? Whom can I ask to validate my diagnosis?
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My thoughts!
I'm trying to do some quick catching up! Last week was crazy! This email sat in my box for a few days last week and I didn't have it in me to open it when I saw the title.
We (my wife and I) have a relationship in our lives that directly relates to the above message. So this is so timely and relevant, but hard because HURT HURTS!
Hurting people hurt people. They have been wounded in the past, so they have not been healed in the present. It is very difficult for everyone, because the wounded one simmers in silent suffering, until they lash out at a loved one. Unless they are made whole by the grace of God, there will be no relational restoration with the Lord and others.
Do you or someone you love walk around with a wounded heart? Your hurt may be the result of an extreme let down from someone you trusted and admired: a parent, or an abusive authority figure. This may explain your resistance to accountability and unwillingness to submit to authority. However, the gospel of Jesus Christ is all about binding up the broken hearted. He came with healing in His wings for hurting hearts (see Malachi 4:2).
Jesus says, “The Spirit of the Lord is upon Me, because He has anointed me to preach the gospel to the poor, He has sent me to heal the broken hearted” (Luke 4:18, NKJV). Hurt is healed when we let go of anger and allow the grace of God to replace it with forgiveness and peace. If we remain immature and insist on our way, we will stay stuck in our childish cycle. But Jesus is calling us beyond our adolescent attitudes. Paul struggled with this when he confessed, “I put childish things behind me” (1 Corinthians 13:11).
Lastly, when we cry out to Christ, He heals. Humility is an invitation to intimacy and healing. You can love with a whole heart when the love of the Lord has mended your heart. Perhaps, you seek out a Biblically based Christian counselor, and trust them to lead you into God’s grace and healing. Then, in humility, reach out to those you have wronged and watch relational healing take place. Honestly ask, ‘Has my heart been healed by heaven?’ The Bible says, “I will heal their waywardness and love them freely, for my anger has turned from them” (Hosea 14:4).
Related Readings: 2 Chronicles 7:14; Malachi 4:2; James 5:16; 1 Peter 2:24
Transformational Living
Is my heart healthy and whole? Whom can I ask to validate my diagnosis?
++++++++++++++++
My thoughts!
I'm trying to do some quick catching up! Last week was crazy! This email sat in my box for a few days last week and I didn't have it in me to open it when I saw the title.
We (my wife and I) have a relationship in our lives that directly relates to the above message. So this is so timely and relevant, but hard because HURT HURTS!
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