“A wife of noble character is her husband’s crown, but a disgraceful wife is a decay to his bones.” Proverbs 12:4
Why are certain wives attractive, and others unattractive? Why do you enjoy the company of some, but avoid the company of others? A wife of noble character is attractive, because she aspires to obey Almighty God. She is a joy to be around, as she enjoys being in the presence of the Lord. Her first allegiance is to her Savior, Jesus Christ, exhibited by her regal appearance and respectful responses God has first place in her heart.
Her husband takes pride in his wife, because she can be trusted in all household matters and financial management. She follows her husband’s leadership by faith. She entrusts him under the authority of God to hold him accountable. A wife of noble character knows how to prayerful ask challenging questions of her man, without usurping his leadership. She is strong and gracious, bold and beautiful, firm and friendly, and faithful and loving.
Her children are loved when they are unlovely, and disciplined when they behave badly. They know their mom cares, even when she gets carried away in her correction. A wife of noble character is a model of motherhood for her daughters, and an example of whom her sons should marry. She is wise to honor her husband in front of the children, especially when they disagree. Her character is a compass for the actions of her kids.
Lastly, a wife of noble character is not afraid to mentor and encourage other wives. Not with a superior spirit, but with an attitude of meekness and brokenness. She quickly admits to her past mistakes, so to save some young women from repeating the hurt and heartache. A student she remains, even while she endeavors to teach and train. Wisdom is worn around her words with humility and grace. Indeed, “Am I grateful, glad and proud of my wife?” The Bible says, “She is worth far more than rubies” (Proverbs 31:10b).
Related Readings: Genesis 2:18-24; Ruth 3:11; 1 Corinthians 11:7-11; 1 Timothy 5:2
Transformational Living
How can I enjoy God’s blessing of my husband and children?
Source: Seeking Daily the Heart of God Boyd Bailey
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My thoughts!
Tough topic, but it's been coming up a lot lately. I believe the most important point of all this is that my wife is a strong believer and follower of Christ. To me that's all that matters. The rest will fall in-line.
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